Well, Mindchild & Battman covered the two choices on living at home.
Skimmer & others got most of the salient points and suggested options for recovering your life style.
Waiting has a point, if you want to use the manipulators ultimate tool. DazedAndConfused said it well about manipulation. Amen.
I'm going to bookmark this one and out it in my growing collection of 'obscure JW doctrines'; I shall title it 'living at "home"'.
So, I have another comment.
"The JWs' master weapon is guilt, as I'm sure you know, ..." ChimpGirl
"A guilt trip is a travel arrangement made by a controlling hypocrite." from Mustang.
Well, if the Guilt Trip is the master weapon or #1 tool, the "...show respect" business is #2.
However, the one that really pisses me off is that "...last days ....natural affection" rubbish. That is tool #3, I suppose.
But somewhere, they came up with the most effective tool of all: "...as long as you are under my roof, you'll do as I say!!!" That could be Tool #4, but it's the one you have to deal with 1st.
I've had all four (and more) used on me. Getting rid of #4 doesn't stop the rest, but it sure takes the wind out of their sails!!!
Hope you are able to stick around, however it goes.
Mustang
Been there, done that Class
PS Apologies about calling your mother or anyone's relatives a hypocrite. Nothing personal, it just goes with the territory.