4, and the dude could have ALMOST been DF'd, AFTER he died too, and for a 5th time, lol. He was one of those characters who was "in" and "out", all the time. When you saw him at an assembly, he wasnt in my congregation, or when visiting his cong, you never knew if he was DF'D or not, lol.
Anyway, at his funeral a brother gave a talk, and some other brothers and sister came up and said a few words about him. After most of the people spoke, another woman came up to talk about him. Nobody there, recognized her, or knew who she even was, but she requested to go up and speak, and they allowed her.
WELL, she proceeded to say, "Hi i am, So and so's FIANCE, we have been dating for a few years, and were soon to be married. I love him, and he was such a kind man bla bla bla bla bla . . . .".
Everybody at the funeral, who were mostly ALL JW's, looked at each other and "shrugged" their shoulders like, who and what was that. Well she WAS his fiance, that NOBODY knew about, and she was a "WORLDLY" woman, who had NOTHING to do with the "truth", lol, freaking PRICELESS.
After that, my Father and I would often say, " Only so and so, could be the ONLY brother to be Disfellowshipped AFTER he DIED", lol. You cant make this shit up, lol.