Posts by nowaytess

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ex-JW Christians Suck!

by mikepence in

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there, i said it.. how can you leave one brainwashing controlling world view and dive right into another?!.

duh!!!.

see http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.asp?id=17131&site=3 for a great example of why they suck.. aaaaaarrrrrrgggghhhh!.

nowaytess

Then do me a favor next time, just email me.

I understand you are trying to leave teh Wt and there will be issues every XJW has to work though.

If you gave the club a chance you might have liked it. There are some members who I know have different view point an opinions. I know who lifestyles are not "Christian" but they are memebers and accepted. I know God has to let them work out thoer issues. Some are going to take longer than others. I find the longer a person has been exposed to the Organization, the longer it takes for the person to heal.

I only heald a few simple rules to keep the peace:

1) nobody is allowed to promote one denomiation over another. Even though it is a Christian based Club, I don't permit that a one denomiation of Christian faith is true and another is false. I feel the members have to find thier own path in thier walk with Jesus.

2) no personal assult on any member.

3)A link must be claerly marked. Many use link form other denominational websites. I just ask they are posted so a memeber can
choose whether they want to go there.

4) all adult profiles must be marked adult.

5) no Wt bashing. There are enough club, groups and boards which do.

My goal is to help the XJW heal and show the realpower of the gospel of Jesus. One day you may be able to forgive Jehovah's Witnesses.
It is a very well moderated board.

I just don't permit WT bashing. It defeats the purpose and just keeps the XJW where they are in anger. I never seen an XJW who reamins in an angry state after a period of "Mourning" the loss of no longer accepted by the Watchtower. If the XJW does not get over the anger then you allow the Watcthower to have more power over your life than when you were in the Organization.

I feel the greatset power and Wintess for Jesus is when an XJW not only accepts Christ but to move and live life everyday.

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ex-JW Christians Suck!

by mikepence in

jw
friends

there, i said it.. how can you leave one brainwashing controlling world view and dive right into another?!.

duh!!!.

see http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.asp?id=17131&site=3 for a great example of why they suck.. aaaaaarrrrrrgggghhhh!.

nowaytess

Tina I have to disagree with you. I have found the peace I am searching for.

Many became Jehovah's Witness in the first place in their seach for serving God.

I am just finding it more disturbing how everyone want to appear toleratent, moderate, compassionate, except towrds one view. If you guys are claiming who yuo are, it is not showing up in the posting here.

Mike started this off post for his personal aganeda. He could have said, " Thank you for offering but I felt your goals and purpose would not match the person whom I lie to take over my board." Instead he ned to vent in a thread. I am just wondering why he did this instead of just saying, "Thanks, but no thanks." I did spare him but not post what he tried to do over in my club.

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ex-JW Christians Suck!

by mikepence in

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friends

there, i said it.. how can you leave one brainwashing controlling world view and dive right into another?!.

duh!!!.

see http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.asp?id=17131&site=3 for a great example of why they suck.. aaaaaarrrrrrgggghhhh!.

nowaytess

I relook at the post, he was not clear in wanting a non-relgious person to take over. He just asked if someone would.

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Race relations in America

by jelly in

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what do you all think of this guy?

he is bill o'reilly from fox.

i like him, i dont agree with his views on clinton but i do like his show.. there's a television program called america's black forum that runs on many abc stations across the country and your humble correspondent was a recent guest on the show.

nowaytess

I am not black, but had lived for a long time in the Lynn which is predomitaley the ghetto of MA North shore.

The current laws on Welfare/Social programs make it too easy and profitable for a receiptiant to stay where they are. I know from experience, not just political theory.

Medical Techonolgy caught up to my medical condtion after 10 years. I took a risk and left, moved to Florida with my Sec 8 voucher. I got my driver's lincese back and went back to work.

Today I own a home, am employed and make more than what I did adding all my goverment benefits.

I beleive the programs are good for those who really need them. Everyone need help at one time in their lives.

Govt has no accountablity to the receiptant. I am hoping a faith-based programs get passed though Congress. Fatih bbased organization not only meet the needs but offer guidance, counselling etc.

Now ther has been an exoerimental program for SEc* receiptant who go back to work or take one of their education to work courses. If you get a job they would make the differnce in you HAP rent go aside if you ever want to use it for a down payment for a house.

If the residents of a neighborhood were homeowners and not just renting from a landowner the face of a neighborhood would change. Homeowner have a personla investment where a renter of a subsides apartment does not, most of time does not care for the place they live very much. They don't vare because they have no investment in property they rent.

I know from Mass it is Political survial for the district you represent to be poor and uneducated. It would not make a difference what race you are. The message i alway gotton was i was a loser and could never make it. Today, I would differ with them.

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Does DF'ing Backfire?

by metatron in

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in an organization as obsessed with control as this one is,.

i have to wonder if the society's leadership ever considers how.

disfellowshipping can turn against them.. i doubt, when they developed the idea of a person "disassociating.

nowaytess

It back fires because it is not correcting the problem.

The method Jehovah's Witness correct a person though Dfing does not teach them to turn from the wicked ways , but to fear reprocussuions of elders, etc.

BTW how can a person redeem themselves if they are shunned to the point they can't ever mend thier relationship?

Thursday Night's Live chat event

by nowaytess in

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thursday night december 13, i am going to have a live chat event.. it begins at 8pm est to 10pm est.

you must be a member of the club to join us in the chat area.. i call it my xjw holiday/x-mas party.

it is pretty good and last year we had a good time.. i would like to invite you all to attend.. <a href= http://clubs.yahoo.com/clubs/christianexjehovahswitnesses </a>

nowaytess

Thursday Night December 13, I am going to have a live chat event.

It begins at 8PM EST to 10PM EST. YOu must be a member of the Club to join us in the chat area.

I call it my XJW Holiday/X-mas Party. It is pretty good and last year we had a good time.

I would like to invite you all to attend.

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ex-JW Christians Suck!

by mikepence in

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friends

there, i said it.. how can you leave one brainwashing controlling world view and dive right into another?!.

duh!!!.

see http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.asp?id=17131&site=3 for a great example of why they suck.. aaaaaarrrrrrgggghhhh!.

nowaytess

I just feel many XJWS get burnt after leaving the Jehovah's Witnesses that the idea of anyone who has a deep faith or what Mike will call "Fundumentalist" are demonized by the XJW culture.

Most who are Born-Again Christian like myself are not mislead, weird people.

It is ok to hold those cvalues which the Bible has dear to us.

It is when a peson oversteps a person boundries with it. I don't shove it down your throat. YOu can go to the club's link, and check it out for yourself.

This is the Internet, if you don't like it don't join. You have a freewill and choice. So does everyone else.

Mike has not given you the whole picture. My club and baord are claerly marked. I created a site for XJWS like myself who hold those values. Those memebers who choose to join know what I and the Founders are all about.

I felt the site was need because it an XJW did express their values and beliefs they were berated for them. Thsi thread and many other confirms the reason why the club was created long ago.

The club is heavly modeated and the members do understand that fact. We have 6 founders and 290 memeber to date. Beside teh singles club, it is #2 on Yahoo club under Jehovah's Witnesses.

I gave you some honest constructive critisim not because I wanted to berate you, but it takes a lot of work to make it succeed. It is takes harder work to keep it there.

I was honest with you abut my intention for your board. I could have slyly and dishonestly have gotton it. I like to acquire it. I have a very horable purpose for the newsboard and have gotten some people who are dedicated to see it work.

I am hoping you personal feeeling won't interfere with you decison though. If you real goal is to help XJWS you might want to hear me out instead of just trying to get XJWS to rally on your side.

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ex-JW Christians Suck!

by mikepence in

jw
friends

there, i said it.. how can you leave one brainwashing controlling world view and dive right into another?!.

duh!!!.

see http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.asp?id=17131&site=3 for a great example of why they suck.. aaaaaarrrrrrgggghhhh!.

nowaytess

Since I have founded my own Board, I can't really say it sucks.

I think it is great and many other agree with me. I am sorry it did not agree with your current lifestyle or beliefs.

You tried to come onto my club and try to berate the founder ( myself) into changing it. It did not work, because I let no one member bully me ot my other members.

The members who do join are know what my club is about. It is clearly marked. I am sorry you did not agree with goals and objectives.

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Anybody want XJWNews.com?

by mikepence in

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the recent un scandal and the departure of some dear friends and loved ones from the borg inspired me to get xjwnews.com off the ground.

i always dreamed of a site like that, but i don't think that i have the will to keep running it.. in our first month, we had nearly 20,000 hits.

kent, simon, randy and several other xjw's with single name status helped along the way.

nowaytess

I am sorry you feel the way you do. It is very sad though.

I don't think anyone will be picking up the board though. You not just a good markerter.

Even though my ministry is a CHRISTIAN BASED ONE, I also had to do my reaseach, and learned how to gear it towards my goals and my target audince. You failed to do both to be effective.

YOu have to have dedication and drive boith which you board lacks.

I been doing this for a long time even when the Internet was nto avalible. WhenI started my own club I set realistic goals. I was bless by Jesus not only for my hard work, but also for fearing it towards his purpose.

I don't find my religious beliefs very restritive. I find them very liberating. God loves us and gives us his principles and guidence for our own good.

YOu will never find the peace y ou are seeing even though you are no longer a JW. Smoking Pot wil only give a temporary relief from the deep pain of rejection you feel from the Watchtower.

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Anybody want XJWNews.com?

by mikepence in

jw
friends

the recent un scandal and the departure of some dear friends and loved ones from the borg inspired me to get xjwnews.com off the ground.

i always dreamed of a site like that, but i don't think that i have the will to keep running it.. in our first month, we had nearly 20,000 hits.

kent, simon, randy and several other xjw's with single name status helped along the way.

nowaytess

I maybe interseted in it, but I would need to know if you want to keep it as it is.

You been on my club before, but I don't think you agree with the principles of it. I remember you verbally disagreeing with my club's introduction and left not understanding what it is all about.

I would change your board to reflect the Born-Again Chrsitan slant.

I think one of the reason why you board is not sucessful is because of the Bob Marley, marajania issues. It may appeal to the few, but won't keep the going in the long run. The image the board is presenting is one most Jehovah's Witnesses and XJWS are not comfortalbe with.

A poll asking if Pot smoking should be legal for adults? How do you think an XJW who still has a Godly sense feel about it?