My post was supposed to point out a couple of side points.
"The next day, the elders showed up at my house and asked me to attend another congregation."
I knew a Ministerial Servant who asked to switch Book Studies because a sister assigned to it used to be his father's mistress. The elders told him that whatever she did prior to becoming a Witness was not to be held against here. They also said that if he switched Book Studies he would be removed as a Servant.
So, if he would have been removed for that why would it be alright for elders to ask you to go to another congregation other than to help out where "the need is great"?
"There was also a local needs part during the next service meeting about not pressing charges against members of the congregation."
Romans 13:1-7 states that the authorities (e.g. the police) are God's ministers and he has given them a sword and we have nothing to fear if we follow the law.
So, the elders telling the congregation not to press criminal charges against those in the congregation who break the law are circumventing God's arrangement.