Sometimes volunteering somewhere is a great way to meet someone, if that's what you're into. They'll likely at least be sort of nice if they're into charity work, too. Maybe be choosy about where you go so that no one will see you and complain to elders or something, though.
If you still believe in God, you could try going to a church. There would be lots of women who'd think an older virgin would be attractive. If you're totally done with religion, disregard the suggestion!
You could probably meet someone at the gym or some other place where there are people. It doesn't have to be a bar or nightclub.