Well, one thing I have noticed is this. When I left the JW's, I began celebrating the holidays with my family, buying gifts, sending birthday, christmas, and other cards, etc. My JW brother does none of these things and yet he is still considered a 'great guy' by the family. As a matter of fact, my stepfather who has no use for JW's has put my brother in his will, and I'm not even mentioned. Of course, I'm not going to make an issue of it, but it just seems kind of strange.
I guess the expression 'Ma always liked you best' still applies, JW or not! Ha.
Outaservice