Posts by 13th_apostate

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How do you know for sure when your'e insane???

by Celtic in

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in the membrane?.

hahahahahahahahaha.

celtic mark - cackling cornwall uk

13th_apostate

I am not sure about now, but they sent me a membership with a cool decoder ring when I was crazy the first time.

:p

will

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Married Guyz / Extramarital "Friendships&a...

by SPAZnik in

ok, so, like, what is the deal with married guys?.

one of the, uh, strange new things i've encountered since de-borg-ing.

is being like a magnet for one married guy afta anutha..... .

spaz: as a married man, I wanted to share a little of my experiences with you. I've been married for 7 years, and together with my wife for 2 years before that. when I was single, I was NEVER hit on. NEVER. true, I was a bit shy and quiet and I've changed a lot since that time, but women never showed much interest in me other than friendship. I got married and it all changed. I'm not sure exactly when it all changed because I really have a blindspot to women flirting with me (one time in a bar, I was so into a conversation I was having with my wife that I didnt notice the waitress flirting with me. it wasn't until the waitress asked if we had separate tickets that my wife very forcefully said, "no, one ticket. WE'RE TOGETHER" that I looked up and asked her why she was so rude. my wife said, "she's only been THROWING herself at you since we got here." I hadn't a clue that she was.) but definitely did change. I literally watched a woman's whole body language change from aloof and icy to warm and inviting once she found out I was married. true, I am very friendly and a little flirty but it is more of a "oh-women-never-take-me-seriously-and-I'm-married-anyway" type of flirting instead of the patented "I-want-to-boink-your-brains-out" type of flirting. I've always wondered why they flirt with me knowing that I'm married. I tried to ask one woman when I was out at a club with some guys why she was so "into" me even though I was married. she just smiled and pulled me on the dance floor. what happened next was freaky and I'm not going tell because no one will believe me if I do. hell, I was there and dont believe it. let's just say that I eased out the back door and left in a hurry.

edited to add: ALONE, I left the club alone. dont want anyone to get the wrong idea.

as a married man, I don't flirt seriously. I'm a really easy going fun loving type of guy. I will tell a married friend she is sexy if I think she is depressed or she is having a bad day. I never flirt with "intention" as it were. for me, it is easy to pick up the unspoken vibes a woman puts out. it's the woman who I dont know very well that puts out the strong sexual vibe that I try to avoid.

I do know a lot of married guys that cheat for a "hobby" as it were. I dont understand them. of course, I am sworn to secrecy and have never ratted on them, but I dont understand why they do it. one guy who I really dont associate with any more was constantly trying to have his wife invite a friend over so that they could have a threesome! he also cheated on her a couple of summers ago with a friend from work who she brought home; the girl and her husband were new in town and didnt know that many people. I don't get it. I dont get him sharing all that with me and I dont get his insistence on it when she was most definitely NOT into that sort of thing. I have a friend that's a cop and he cheats all over town, but we have never discussed it. it's just something he does. don't understand that at all.

so maybe it is all a matter of conquest or challenge. I dont know. there are the occasion when there are actually real marital problems that women and men look outside the marriage for comfort; I suppose they do that because it's easier that trashing the relationship and trying all over again from scratch. I'm not sure. but from my point of view, I have seen more women, married and single, hit on married guys than the other way around. maybe there is a shortage of guys in my area, I dont know.

there are my two cents.

will

Edited by - 13th_apostate on 15 August 2002 20:57:28

Edited by - 13th_apostate on 15 August 2002 20:58:27

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WHAT MEN want in a woman (lady)

by QUEENIE in

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i thought men should have equal time in regards to this subject sooooo here goes / list a way dudes -- linda lou aka queenie

13th_apostate

what do I want IN a woman? why, a little bit of myself of course; as often as possible. :p

seriously though, I would have say that intelligence, sense of humor, a sense of adventure and a sense of wonder are paramount.

will

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And I thought I didnt have any.........

by SpiceItUp in

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as the general rule i don't scare easily and i am always looking into the unknown corners.

i like the creepy and spooky.

spiders and snakes dont freak me out either.

13th_apostate

faraon: don't worry about your 20 concubines, the church of will will take very good care of them. :)

will

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Over analyze this

by LuckyLucy in

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is this the sign of the beast???.

http://www.greaterthings.com/news/chip_implants/

13th_apostate

no, not a sign of the beast, but rather a sign of beastly storytelling. it is old science fiction mixed with bad religious interpretation. you know, sort of like a bad metaphysical gumbo. a little alka seltzer will clear it right up.

:p

will

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And I thought I didnt have any.........

by SpiceItUp in

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as the general rule i don't scare easily and i am always looking into the unknown corners.

i like the creepy and spooky.

spiders and snakes dont freak me out either.

13th_apostate

faraon:LOL. I deny any knowledge of your condition or of any plans to use my fear to destroy you. but I may know something about plans to slip a new designer drug into your coffee to make you sterile so that you won't reproduce. j/k

spicy: spicy, baby, sweetheart, I WAS being serious. remember, I work in a public library. my irrational fear of these things were born because of the things I encounter every day. it used to be fears of things like someone coming in angry and shooting us (which, incidently, we just narrowly avoided last year by happenstance; a druggie shot up one of the local wal-marts and in the newspaper article he said something along the lines of "I was going to go to the library but there were closed so I went to walmart...". the druggie was a prominent doctor's son. we were closed for an in service day at the time.) I have seen things that would blast a weaker person's mind to shreds. trust me on this. you should all fear sauerkraut and banana sandwiches. dont ask why, just....trust me on this.

:|

will

I suppose know I have a phobia that spicy doesn't think I take her seriously! :( damn phobias! their everywhere!

*looks around for his anti-phobia spray*

Edited by - 13th_apostate on 2 August 2002 18:5:1

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And I thought I didnt have any.........

by SpiceItUp in

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as the general rule i don't scare easily and i am always looking into the unknown corners.

i like the creepy and spooky.

spiders and snakes dont freak me out either.

13th_apostate

I have a horrible fear of peanutbutter flavored ice cream and mint skittles.

and a fear of unwashed, schizophrenic, NRA members suffering from caffeine withdrawal.

and talking cats.

and 12 year old girls who dress like something in cosmopolitan.

and sauerkraut and banana sandwiches. terrible, terrible fear of those.

will

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what is the issue with smurfs?

by knighthawk1981 in

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hi...i was wondering why jw's think smurfs are evil?

also what is a dub?

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knighthawk: that article is ridiculous! I can not believe that I used to read such stuff and not question it! how do they leap from a latin etymology to anything being described as "beastly" as unchristian to "history tells us that cats were probably given as presents in biblical times at parties" is beyond me. what a load of rubbish.

in regards to the defenders: yeah, I pretty much have a complete run of the original series. the secret defenders comic had great potential but it failed miserably - to many bad writers. the latest defenders series I only got the first four issues of before I got bored with it. I tried the order, but all I could think of was "oh look, marvel is trying to do the authority". I never did follow it all the way through.

will

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Women should be silent in the congregation?

by writerpen in

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okay, since i've been attending a new church, i've had the opportunity to sit on three committees.

i've gone hog wild and volunteered for everything trying to make up for all the years that i couldn't do anything as a female in the kh.

anyway, last night i stirred the shit in one of the meetings by voicing my opinion on how something in the church is run.

13th_apostate

I agree with coolbreeze. I always sort of wondered that about paul. any man not "interested" in women are suspect to me. not that I'm a homophobe mind you - in fact, ANY man, straight or gay, who ISN'T interested in sex at all are HIGHLY suspect to me. (for some reason some friends of my wife are always ending up with guys who "aren't into sex"; WTF is that about?)

:p

will

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Do wicked spirits prove a creator exists?

by haujobbz in

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i was in town today and spoke to a woman i knew and to my surprise she told me she was a satanist member,i then discussed things dealing with god,spirit forces,occult etc.this then made me think if theres no god where do these active forces come from,is there really a realm of spirit creatures called demons,she then told me that these forces are very powerful and can harm those who interfere with there operations,also she said they have a vast amount of knowledge at their disposal and can give her information which couldnt be known otherwise.

but does this prove theres a creator ?

13th_apostate

:|

libra: where did you hear of and when did you gain this "knowledge of astral forms"?

will