G'day besty,
I don't think we've corresponded before but at least we are now, eh?
I don't pretend to have the 'right' answers to your question but what i do have is opinions based on the experience that Mrs Ozzie and I had.
I have never believd in DA - personally I think it grants 'them' the recognition that they don't deserve. Sure, many don't go that way and that's fine with me. My best friend took a different path himself and caused quite a stir in the local KH!!
But for us (MRs Ozzie and I) we just got on with our lives and it was several years later that we were finally 'invited' - we refused because we rightly considered the WT an irrelevance in our lives. Our crime? Not fading, oh no, it was attending a church!! - see the parallel with your Alpha course?
I believe we were DF - we've never been told - but I think in your case too, the wheels are in progress, you can't stop it.
Should you fight it? Not likely! They're doing you a favor of the highest order!
Rejoice!