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  Your Experience with Resigning as an Elder

  by committeechairman in

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  i'm considering resigning as an elder.

  i'm not planning to fade or stop as one of jehovah's witnesses, just stop serving as an elder.. i have responsibility in the congregation and in circuit, district, rbc, etc.

  and i'm completely exhausted.

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  CC, my hubby is an elder and he 'stepped down' for a while, though we didn't know for how long. He got together with me to work out the letter together. He was like you and had become exhausted and our marriage was suffering too. We decided that it was in the best interests of our relationship that he had to do it. He used scriptures to show how marriage and family was important, that the jobs he had to do was taking away time we could spend together. How the wife and children come before the congregation. His resignation was accepted (with reluctance) but he was firm with his decision. Could you do the same? Sit down with your wife and discuss how you need to word it, if she can have some imput I'm sure it will have a good effect.

  All the best!!
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  Please explain God's wisdom in Judges19;22-30

  by jam in

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  the just of the account, two people enter a city and can not .

  find lodging.

  an old man invite them to stay with him (levite).. this is so weird, all the men of the city come to have sex with.

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  I've read stories in history books about what catholics did to 'heretics' and all in the name of God. I don't think the stories in the bible are much different. They did bad things and all in the name of God. When Jesus came he showed that the God they were teaching about was very different to the one he knew and taught to his disciples.
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  Unsung Heroes of J.W net

  by new hope and happiness in

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  2. friends

  been on this site 8 months now, but not on a daily basis.

  recently discoverd a poster named processor, loved his tread on the life of jesus.

  anyway the guys posts never seem to make long threads.

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  I really like some of the stories that a poster called 'Amazing' posted. Lots of fun to read, very eye-opening and gob-smacking! I also like the posts by 'Darth Rutherford'. He doesn't post much but they are always very thought provoking.
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  Which of the SEVEN stages of post JW behavior are you in right now?

  by Terry in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  1. they done me wrong.

  2. i'm depressed.

  3. i'm gonna act like an apostate (smoke, drink, drugs, sex, outrageous behavior).

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  I'm at no.4. I do feel a bit of no.1 and 2 the anger and depression but have generally moved on. I don't want to go off the rails and don't want to get involved in activism. I'm interested in moving forward wherever it may take me. I still believe in God but not religion. I feel optimistic and want to live a happy life (what's left of it). Family is important to me. I don't want to waste what's left of life in case this is all there is but I still have a yearning for spiritual things, although I believe even being atheist or agnostic one can be spiritual (with a love of nature, music, realtionships etc). Is there something after death? I hope so but even if not I can make the most of what I have now. I love reading and learning and I'm finding it's taking me to all sorts of new and interesting places.
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  Do You Reply To Your PM's?

  by snowbird in

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  all of them?.

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  I don't get many but I always answer the ones I get. I enjoy getting them but I don't send many because I don't want to be a nuisance and a lot of the time I just like reading.
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  When in Rome.....

  by quellycatface in

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  hi there.. have finally taken the bull by the horns and booked a trip to rome.

  always wanted to go.

  great architecture, food and atmosphere.. of course, i have to do the vatican.after seeing it all in angels and demons, plus the sistine chapel etc..... has anyone else been to rome??

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  If you go to the Coliseum don't get ripped off by the 'Gladiators'... they'll have a photo taken with you (using your camera) and then charge you 10E for the privilege!

  the Forum is good and Ostia Antica ( a short train ride away) is a wonderful day out.
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  Elderettes?

  by mellojello in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  hey everyone i'm new here.

  i'm not baptised but i've been qoute on qoute 'studying' for the past 4-5 years.

  i'm almost 20. i've been lurking and i've seen a lot of posts about elderettes.

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  tornapart

  Hmmmm... well, I suppose you could call me an 'elderette' because hubby is an elder. Guess I'm not typical though and if I could get hubby to step down I would.

  I think the 'elderette' bashing is a bit unfortuante. I didn't ask for it and I don't want it. My eyes are fully opened. I've always hated the 'position' I've been put in but had to make the most of it. I'm an introvert and like being left alone. The only reason why I like it is because, with my hubby being an elder, I'm left alone, despite missing loads of meetings/assemblies and doing no FS.

  Please don't lump us altogether... I'm no rottweiler!
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  I need help! Talk coming up and I need ideas fast!

  by BU2B in

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  2. friends

  omg i am so distressed.

  i have a talk coming up on tuesday, it is the number 3 "abiram.

  why opposing god appointed authority is tantamount to opposing god himself"!.

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  Brilliant!! If I was listening to this at out hall I'd love it! Someone in the Conscious Class will know for sure that you are also a closet apostate but as for the R&F, they will be nodding their heads thinking of 'evil Christendom'. It may even wake a few from their slumber. Awesome job! Please let us know how it goes!!
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  Post the funniest WTBTS quote you can think of

  by DuvanMuvan in

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  2. bible

  just felt like a laugh.. if any funny quotes come to mind feel free to post them here.

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  'The Finished Mystery' page 85 interpreting the Leviathan from the book of Job 41:1-6:-

  “Thou wilt lengthen out leviathan [the locomotive] with a hook [automatic coupler] or with a snare [coupling-pin] which thou wilt cause his tongue [coupling link] to drop down. Wilt thou not place a ring [piston] in his nostrils [cylinders] or pierce through his cheeks [piston-ends] with a staff [piston rod]? Will he make repeated supplications unto thee [to get off the track]? Or will he utter soft tones unto thee [when he screeches with the whistle]?… Wilt thou play with him as with a bird [make him whistle at will]? Or wilt thou bind [enslave] him for thy maidens [so that you can take them to a picnic or convention]? Companies [of stockholders] will feast upon him [his earnings] … ”
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  Post the funniest WTBTS quote you can think of

  by DuvanMuvan in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  just felt like a laugh.. if any funny quotes come to mind feel free to post them here.

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  tornapart

  sorry, double post