>> I have read many stories here about those who have been disfellowshiped. They express the pain of the experience, and the emotional trauma they experience.
I have to ask a question. What did you expect? You knew the rules. You knew what happens when you leave, at least I did, so why are you shocked? If you get even a modicum of recognition afterwards, you should be grateful. After all, when you leave, they owe you nothing, and you know it. When you were a true believer, you would have done the same thing that was done to you, so why are you surprised?
I do not understand the mindset of those who leave and are upset over how they have been treated. When I left, I fully understood the consequences.
Could someone explain this to me? <<
Yes I would be happy to, I was disfellowshiped once it was not untill then that I seen just how mean and nasty it is hardly loving in the lest. Oh yes I knew what the rules of being a sinner is and the rules as seen through the eyes of the GB and the so called scriptures.
I had to ask my self if Jesus is so kind and Jehovah is so full of undeserved kindness how can they condone such things as disfellowshiping, if they do they must be quite confused as to the principle of love and forgiveness as they teach teach. To leave is much diferent than beinng judged by men that you must now be ignored because your too much of a sinner, and have your family friends treat you as if you are not alive. If Monkeys do that to one Monkey that Monkey dies, are we not supposed to be more than Monkeys? They may say its scriptural and Gods will, but it does not ring reall with good sense concerning all that love is and forgiveness; Let God judge, men can not do it very well.
Pepper