Hey larc, it's Pete2, remember me? One of your favorite people!
I don't understand your objection to TJ's analogy.
A house is a rigid structure that has be disassembled. A person as an organism, can modify itself slowly over time.
Why can't one make a metaphor of a house being a living organism? A house seems to grow from the earth. Some believe a house contains the energies and memories of those who have lived in it. Isn't it creative to draw parallels -- a childhood; a house -- between a good foundation and a bad one?
Here's a few examples of what I mean.
The poet May Swenson wrote:
Body my house
my horse my hound
what will I do
when you are fallen
Or how about George Fox, founder of the Society of Friends (Quakers):
"The Lord showed me ... his people were his temple, and he dwelt in them.
And as the Italians say: "sistemare i propri affari" (set your house -- or life -- in order). Which probably comes from 2nd Kings 20:1 -- "Set thine house in order."
And ol' Abe Lincoln said about the Civil War, "A house divided cannot stand." Once again referring to scripture.
And since we're on the subject of the Bible, don't forget Pro. 9:1 -- "Wisdom hath builded her house, she hath hewn out her seven pillars."
And of course, there's Jesus' parable at Mt. 7: 24 -- 27, that those who listened to his sayings were likened to the man who built his house upon the rock mass; those that built them on sand were likened to fools.
(Too much Bible? I could have used a more extensive secular education.)
Anyway this is getting too long, gotta go. Gotta think outside the box/ bun / cheese sandwich, baby!
My tuppence.
the enigmatic Pete2