Posts by pettygrudger

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HELP ME! TEENAGER INVASION

by Yerusalyim in

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my 15 year old son is having a party this evening...i have 24 teens here...hormones and all...save me!...actually, they're pretty good kids...just skating and listening to music.

the real problem are the parents.

a few weeks ago there was a party at a house with no chaperones...and the house got trashed...bad.

For Canada: ONTARIO VOTES

by RAYZORBLADE in

ok folks, if you live in the province of ontario, it should come as no surprise to you: we have a provincial election going on, and a very important one too.

thursday, october 2, 2003 is our provincial election.

here's some information that may be useful: .

pettygrudger

Well Walter, we do have a meet-up tonight - and since you have 3 whole days off.....

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Dating sucks

by Stacy Smith in

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ok i'm having a pity party.

i don't usually date much.

i prefer going out with a group rather than just a single person.

pettygrudger

As soon as I gave up "dating" and decided to just concentrate on myself & having fun, I met my hubby. (nah - that's a good thing).

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Dating sucks

by Stacy Smith in

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ok i'm having a pity party.

i don't usually date much.

i prefer going out with a group rather than just a single person.

pettygrudger

Yes Rocketman, we all knew we have to settle for 2nd best because you're off the market!

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Wives Should Provide Sex On Demand - Dr. Laura

by Mindchild in

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i couldn't believe that i was reading this in the news....http://www.news.com.au/common/story_page/0,4057,7446555%255e13762,00.html ok, dear it might fix my headache.

by george gordon.

october 3, 2003. .

pettygrudger

Good point Sheila - sometimes either party could be withholding sex as a punishment towards their partner, making sex a symptom of much larger miss-understandings.

I know women "tend" (just generalizing) to equate love w/sex, while men just equate w/physical pleasure. Perhaps the points she was trying to make is that women should not be withholding sex as a control tool? (which would make obvious sense). BUT, to make a blanket statement that a woman should have sex everytime a man wants it, without looking at the individual relationship is absurd.

But the same should work for both sexes - and like Sheila said - respect is key. And why I'm on this computer discussing this issue, instead of in bed w/dh now that jr's asleep - egads!

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Wives Should Provide Sex On Demand - Dr. Laura

by Mindchild in

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i couldn't believe that i was reading this in the news....http://www.news.com.au/common/story_page/0,4057,7446555%255e13762,00.html ok, dear it might fix my headache.

by george gordon.

october 3, 2003. .

pettygrudger

lol - thanks Rocketman - it aint all that much really - but it fills up a day! (that's why I have to read my favorite blogs at work!). Plus, I tend to be on the hyperactive side (till I found this dang computer!).

My point was that there can be many issues why a woman might not be particulary interested in giving up sex on any given occassion. There could be reasons why a man might not feel like performing either. The key to a HEALTHY relationship in the sex arena is understanding the other, so that neither is left wanting. Being considerate & sensitive to the others needs is important for both.

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Wives Should Provide Sex On Demand - Dr. Laura

by Mindchild in

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i couldn't believe that i was reading this in the news....http://www.news.com.au/common/story_page/0,4057,7446555%255e13762,00.html ok, dear it might fix my headache.

by george gordon.

october 3, 2003. .

pettygrudger

Because sometimes we're just too tired.

I work full time, have 2 children that go to school in 2 different school districts & 1 is autistic. Now, if that child actually goes to sleep when he's supposed to, mom & dad MIGHT get a peaceful night. 5 nights out of 7 - aint happening that way. We also are both involved in other activities (i.e. I do alot of advocating for children w/special needs), and sometimes I am to drained to do it. So what? There is no rule book that says a man should get it every time he wants it.

I've said no to my hubby on occassion, and we still have a normal healthy sex life. I don't feel like I HAVE to give it up everytime he asks, why should I?

BTW - I don't get it everytime I ask for it either - does that mean he's doing something wrong? Doubtful, the world doesn't revolve around sex - that's just 1 part of a healthy relationship.

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