Thanks everyone for your concern.
Yes he is active and believes that those folks are worshipping God in truth. He acknowledges that wrong things go on, but he believes that it is because of human imperfection, yada yada yada. He doesn’t think I am a submissive wife, because I do not tremble at them. One time he did get really mad at me and said under his breath, “of all the sisters that I could have married, I married you.” That hurt. But I said right back, “maybe you could have married one of those silly pioneer sisters that still are not married because other brothers have sense enough to know that they are pioneering because they are lazy, only working partime “in order to pioneer”. Or you could have married one of those sorry sisters whose husband left them when they came into the “truth”. Those men were just waiting for an excuse to get rid of those sorry things.”
He is so angry with me right now for not going to the kingdom hall. And when I do go he holds his breath when the brothers approach me because he think I will say something unkind. I told him that I am more intelligent than that. But if they ask me a nosy question I will simply say, “ask my head”. If they persist then I will say that it is none of your business with a look to kill. I told my husband that I do not need their permission or approval. I told him if he wants to be happy with a good and supportive wife he better be nice to me.
I give him little tidbits from time to time. Sometimes he let me talk a little more than other times. He knows that I am not lying.
I believe that he loves me. He provides well for me. I just can’t seem to get those rose colored glasses off that face of his. Any more suggestions?
Pureheart