Good question but only you can answer that one. Go get some private therapy to help you figure it out.
At least your daughter is not screaming to get high on meth,right? Or she went to a party and she was the party.
Maybe you need to train her for college. I resent my parents for not training everyone for a higher education.
It is called screwing your children up! Your job is to make sure she is spending time with her education and that she is going to college not door to door.
Take her to the college campus to study.
Take her to pick up applications!
Let your daughter that door to door activity and going to the kingdom hall is not going to prepare her for a career. She needs to get some scholarships and mentally prepare for four years of college.
That is your reponsibilty. Also, become that head of the house to your wife. Tell her their will be some changes and door to door will be once a month. When she starts to talk all they JW talk ignore her just stay focus.
Going to the KH and door to door is a waste of time! Let your family know prorities are going to change!