Posts by sarahsmile

i've been wanting to ask your advice for ages on this subject and here goes.. my mum is a jw fanatic, she just reads the bible and the publications, no other books at all.

she is a functioning alcoholic.. she is so disappointed in me.

i married out of the truth, you see!!!.

sarahsmile

Do you think you can let her know when she says something that it bothers you! Please do not say my child is naughty or poor!

Once you let her know how you feel it will get easier.

As far as fanatic reading that could work to your benefit. One simple question can lead to doubt.

I would be interested in what she is reading so I could say what do you think of this paragraph. There is always a few odd paragraphs.

You could have your own private joke. As long as you keep your own views to yourself. Let her draw her own conclusion. Do not make it a big conversation more like a hit a run.

You could look up comments from Wt studies here :-)

Also, let her know it is Your life and You are happy with your husband and child. It bothers you that she states.......! She made her choices and she should respect yours.

As far as gift giving goes I do not know.

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I'm a target now

by Stirred in

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well, it has come to another fork in the road.

i have been going to other meetings and skipping more.

car groups and two bros tried stopping by my house recently but i was not home or gates were locked.

sarahsmile

It will not matter as long as you do not have family in the org. DA family can not associate with you. DA do not want to attend meetings but if one wants it the same as Dfing you.

Good thing for gates! Now the time to have your voice mail on.

Elders not going to do anything. Hopefully he will ignore you. Best not to say it again.

Why are you attending meetings?

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Shepherd the Flock Book - Did Your Wife or Other Family Member Find It?

by jw07 in

those of you who served as elders, did your wife or other family members / friends find your secret shepherd the flock book?

how did they react?

how did you react?.

Nugget it was the right thing to do as far as confidentiality! You gained my respect. Your husband probably shared confident with other elders. Some elders wives do not understand this. Elders get the wanting to help a dfd one so they go to the orginal elders to find out the facts! Goes against the rules. That how rumors spread because orginal elder do not keep it private.

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After leaving did the feeling go away?

by committeechairman in

the feeling that you're never good enough.

the feeling that you're wicked and evil.. .

because i'd give anything not to feel this way.

sarahsmile

Considering I was the kind to go back for family,I had a horrific elders meeting that lasted over fifteen years. It became a you have to reinstate me! Not!

Anyhow, I was bitter and when I did my research and joined this forum I realized that it was a waste of time! I did get reinstated but not by those elders. They are all dead now so it is in Jesus hands.

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Are the Jehovah's Witnesses rewriting Jehovah's Law regarding Polygamy?

by I_love_Jeff in

watchtower: 9/15/1956 page 572.

"although for a time god permitted the israelites to practice polygamy, yet this was not gods purpose for them, nor did he command them to adopt this practice.".

verses please.

sarahsmile

17 “You shall not covet your neighbor’s house; you shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor’s.”

It does not say covet your neighbors wives.

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Are the Jehovah's Witnesses rewriting Jehovah's Law regarding Polygamy?

by I_love_Jeff in

watchtower: 9/15/1956 page 572.

"although for a time god permitted the israelites to practice polygamy, yet this was not gods purpose for them, nor did he command them to adopt this practice.".

verses please.

sarahsmile

Your right none of those scripture referred to having more than one spouse wrong. Not even close,but that is how the WT writes their articles. They show a scripture on fornication(single) with a husband then jump to polygamy as wrong! Whereas the scripture had nothing to do with multiple wives but an act out side the marriage bed, such as a husband having an afair with a none married person caught in the act of fornication.

And that not the only subject they messed up!

But Jesus did speak about how it was in the beginning a man leaves his parents a clings to his " wife" not wives. Goes on to explain about ztiff neck people. But the WT never brought that point out so it is jumping subject around. They do not expect you to question anything!

Deacons or elder with one wife compared to others who had multiple wives! :-)

I even think that Jesus spoke and fed crowds who had multiple wives. Five thousand men were fed but how many wives and their children. In those days they had big families.

Well anyhow I am not for polygamy but I wondered about that issue. If a man had five wives and committed fornication then five wives would have grounds for divorcement. Apparently it would not go well with his "wives." Scripture only has wife and not wives.

Still your point is reasonable.

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Am I part of the Cure or am I part of the disease

by Jon Preston in

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so this is the ultimate dilemma.

my wife and i are on the same page.

do we fade, in which all our friends, and i stress friends call us and feel sick and hurt and hurt and we feel guilty; or do we da so we tell the wt what we see as wrong as what we see that lead us to believe its a false religion; or do we df and let me or my wife let them catch us at some wrong doing and stop going to meetigs..... .

sarahsmile

Fading is wrong they would bug the hell out of us!

Let her do whatvthe he she wants!

What do you want to do? Maybe you should consider two different options.

Living a double life sucks! Pretending to be something your not just makes you look untrust worthy.

So it something no one can say.

I can tell you fading is so much more easier than getting dfd or da. But hey she smokes so it is just a matter of time for her.

What is she smoking!

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STARTING OVER with my Elderette - What Does the Bible REALLY Teach?

by Faithful Witness in

she said, "so, what made you decide to study this book?

at this point, she opened with a prayer.

"...and some decide that such questions are best left to religious leaders and teachers.

sarahsmile

She so brain gone!

Read the Make Sure under Abortion. They have a clause under certain circumstances life or death of the the mother. Just saying most JW do not read their Make Sures or what ever book it is now. Now, compare it to people who do not believe in abortion there is no clause!

She qoutes from old WT so she has a set concept how the study should go. You did a good job but it went over her head.

The new light conversation is so wrong!

Personally it is sad that you have to do this to get back in your families favor.

She is the type that will walk out when something goes wrong! Preach and change over night!

She ure was wrong about dfd ones. They do not make a choice and are treated harshly.