Englishman
You are correct to a degree.
A real suicidal,person will not want any inerference in what he is going to do.
Yet their are different levels, to which a person may reach before this happens. To those who you object to, who make a threat of it, yes could be attention seeking but also it can be a genuine cry for help.
When a person is swollowed up with despair, they don't think straight. It is so easy for others to pass judgement, but I reckon those that do, do so out of ignorance rather than wisdom.
I knew a young JWs girl who started to come home from school with broken arms broken this and broken that. It was a cry for help. She wanted people know shw was hurting, but did not know how to express this. Her father was very dictatorial, she ended up leaving home at a young age and falling for a scoundral that beat her up!
She was eventualy dissfellowshiped for living with someone who was not her husband. Such a loving organisation eh?
The reason I tell you this, is that so many of her so called Christian relatives, including her father abandoned her.
I do not know what happened to her, but I would not minimise a cry for help.This could so easily have turned into a suicide.
My first reaction to the post you refer to was the same as your own, but I would be cautious of speaking publicly about it unless I really knew the guy.
You could be right, but if you are wrong, then you could push the poor fellow over the edge again.
Radar