The fact is the congregations are precisely like the rest of the world despite their assertion to the contrary, some 'good' some 'bad' in every one and whether you consider it more one or the other depends on your own perspective and situation in the organization . . . just like everywhere else.
There is not one iota of evidence that they have any more love than any other org. in fact there appears to be less, and maybe that has to do with the lack of social propriety encouraged by their policies and beliefs.
As far as how their behavior fails to jibe with their own bible, I have noticed through this thread, and in my own personal experience as well one particularly disturbing trend. The organizations failure to extend even common consideration to women with children and either non-existent or non-believing spouses. Not that I care to look it up but there is a scripture that speaks of caring for widows and fatherless children. Their behaviour in the largest part is quite the opposite.
In all my many years of dealing with numerous congregations I saw the same cliquish behaviour and social tendencies in them as I see all around the world. They are no less a part of the world than any other religion, whatever they may like to propound.
In my experience with this religion I saw no more indeed if anything LESS joy amongst the people than is evidenced in the average group of humans. It makes sense that there would be less joy as they are damning such a large population of the earth in their minds.
How can people be happy believing their own natural heart tendencies are dirty and despicable? How can someone be happy if they believe natural physical acts are vile and disgusting? How could anyone have any sense of evident hope and security if they believe in damnation, whether of themselves or other humans? How can you feel love if you are taught to hate and mistrust . . . not only your own inclinations but the entire world around you?
These people, this organization is no better than any other and worse than some.
Only when people throw all religion away and listen to their hearts can the conditions they all seem to long for become manifest.
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