Posts by razorMind

Any onion dip, especially Kraft Green Onion Flavor, the availability of which dwindles every passing year. GREEN onion, not French onion.....there's a difference.

Hunt's Butterscotch pudding.

Cookie dough, whether from scratch, from a mix, or slice-and-bake.

Corn dogs.

A Dairy Queen vanilla cone, dipped in butterscotch.....aaahhhhhh.....

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Should I have said something?

by Beans in

growing up i was discriminated for being german and italian not only that my ears grew before i did and was also called dumbo.

so combine that with square head, nazi and wop and being made fun of for being a jw getting in fights as a kid was very frequent.. so now you can pretty much call me anything you want and i really just don't care, got used to it and it just rolls off me.

so last week i am at a small birthday party and this guy was making some coments about germans and calling his boss "a crusty old kraut" among other things.

razorMind

I have often wanted to say something about posts/topics I have seen here, but refrained because it just isn't worth it. Those who do seem to get pounced on with the "you people see race in/get offended by EVERYTHING" type retorts.

Judging from some statements and topics I have seen here (and I'm NOT talking about the most recent topics) it would appear that not many "ones of color" frequent this board.

Just something I've noticed.

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"Abhor what is wicked" - and yet JWs allow domestic violence?

by somebodylovesme in

old story just came to mind as i was browsing through the watchtower's website (because i can't sleep and i truly find it entertaining) and read an article about abhoring that which is wicked.

i was never a jw - my husband was until he was 20, and is now inactive.

he told me a story that just infuriates me to no end, and i have to wonder if it is common.

razorMind

There was an article written in Essence magazine some years ago, by a woman who either was abused or grew up in a severely abusive family. She was a former Witness and the elders were involved many times but did nothing.

Being a dub at the time, I was quite shocked to see the article; she told it all, no holds barred. But I wasn't surprised, because my best friend's father abused and dominated their family.

Does anyone remember that article?

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Kid Rock

by Sentinel in

this is just my opinion, but i watched his performance last night, and cringed while he sang off key this was the first time i'd heard him perform, and about all he could do in key was scream.

guess that just isn't my thing.

i'll take the original recording artist any time.

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I'd just be happy if he'd get a body perm, or a body wave--or whatever the hell you call it. Heck, a curling iron would do if it'd give it more body.

That limp, dirty, stringy hair...UGH

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Vacationing with a Witness

by DevonMcBride in

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the end of october i'm going on a 9 day cruise to the caribbean with a group of 70 people.

one of the the travelers is a jw and it will be interesting to see how "worldly" she will behave away from her jw clan.

at our christmas party (that's right she was at our christmas party) she got drunk and she buys christmas presents for her grandchildren who are not jw.

razorMind

I remember a Dub (baptized, still in good standing) girl from a neighboring congregation who was seeing a married police officer in our VERY small town.

She and her little Dub friends always shunned my sis and I because we weren't in the "in" group; even more so once we dropped out of the troof.

Oh, the look on her face the last time my sis and I saw her coming out of our local grocery store, hand-in-hand with her lover.....we just happened to be visiting our hometown the same weekend and just happened to be together when we saw her. I thought she'd have a heart attack right there at the storefront.

I always find it interesting when I see JWs that don't know I was once one. Most of them play the boy scout right to the end. But some are a different person when they think they are safe from JW or ex-JW eyes.

Very interesting indeed--I totally agree. The last time I worked with a JW, that JW was right on the Dub straight 'n narrow. She didn't know that I used to be one. Made it a point to inform us new folks that she didn't work on certain nights because she was a Dub. She was die-hard and true; would never say "and you do the same" when a customer wished her a Merry Christmas. It was always a stammered, fake "a-and you have a-a nice day!"

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MY CONSULTING TRIP TO BETHEL (starting over) PART 6

by seven006 in

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within a few weeks i leased a condo on the banks of the willamette river just out side the city of portland.

as she got into her car she looked at me funny again, laughed and just shook her head.. .

i told him that if i said i was sorry, i knew that is what they wanted to hear but it was not the truth.

razorMind

Unfortunately, only those of us on this board can understand how really crazy it all is.

Totally, wholeheartedly agree!!!

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JW strangers say mean things to you at assemblies?

by jwbot in

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jw's can be rotten, but what about the "brutally honest" jw strangers at assemblies?

i have had some issues with the general meaness jw's are to people that they do not even know, and are jw's.. example 1: i was maybe 13 years old and i was a fast developer, i had big boobs basically.

well a dress i had was really nice...my parents would not have let me wear something that was not apprepriate for me, but i guess the dress was low (i didn't think so) and when i was in the bathroom at the assembly at the mirror, a woman just came up to me and was like "you are showing all the assets you have to offer" or something to that effect.

razorMind

My youngest sister (22, still a Dub) regales me with the incredibly stupid comments/unsolicited advice from the congregants at her Hall.....

...it's quite unbelievable, the things that these people feel they have the right to say to her and her husband. These selfsame people would not have DARED say such stupid things to me or my other sis, back when we were Dubs.

Personally I think they can sense the general depressed and down-trodden air she has about her, and act accordingly. It's sad; she acts like that's how things are supposed to be. She doesn't seem to have ANY sense of outrage or to realize that that was a pretty fucked-up thing to say to a "fellow Christian sister".

If a brother/sister had said to US half the things that they say to my youngest sis, they would've been subjected to a severe cursing-out, or a serious ass-whuuping.

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HELP!!! HELP!!!! HELP!!!!!!

by proudassmonkey in

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ok i need some help from who ever has dealt w. their jw parents.

this is the email i got from my parents: .

dear melissa, .

razorMind

Bebu,

I have been wondering the same thing for a long time. I honestly don't know what to make of them.

Maybe they're becoming sad, bored, and lonely--realizing that time is steadily marching past.....

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HELP!!! HELP!!!! HELP!!!!!!

by proudassmonkey in

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ok i need some help from who ever has dealt w. their jw parents.

this is the email i got from my parents: .

dear melissa, .

razorMind

We are still here for you whenever you need us

Well this what is known as a double message. On one hand they're telling you, literally, they can't ever talk to you again, and then on the other they are "here for you". I'm sorry, but that's crazy.

Totally, totally agree with this. My parents try the same tack, but with their actions.

I rarely get a phone call, even though they live less than an hour away; I never EVER get a visit even though their convention is right in the same city......like Gopher, I never told them about my marriage and they were the ABSOLUTE LAST to hear about my pregnancy.

But on the rare occasion that I do visit them, there's always a comment about "don't stay away so long next time" or "your mother gets really hurt when you don't call or write or visit." What kills me is that my dad actually had the nerve to ask my disfellowshipped sister "why she never came around much anymore."

What I find myself doing is gradually distancing myself, a little at a time. It's hard but sometimes it just has to be done. Don't reach out to accept the extremely conditional "love" they're offering. I agree with Big Tex. Yes indeed--we here know EXACTLY where you're coming from.

{{{hugs}}}}} and {{{good luck to you}}}