Actually now that I look back in retrospect being born a JW had it's positive sides as well.
- I begrudgingly became much better at public speaking. (Theocratic Ministry School anyone? LOL)
- I learned quickly how to "charm" someone so as to develop rapport, even if you dont give a rat's ass about them. (Excellent quality in the business world)
- I learned the nature of politics. (Anyone who does not believe politics and maneuvering does not take place within the Borg or in the real world to achieve success is blinded)
Then after leaving..
- I learned what it meant to be deceived. Because of this I became very skeptical of any and all things someone else said to me, and learned to be an independent thinker and after researching the matter thoroughly to develop my own conclusion.
- I learned to accept some things as they are, and to move on with my life. (Family remaining in the Borg and shunning are examples of this)
- I learned what it meant to hate. Being born into the JW you are nurtured to believe in this dream world full of safety and love and indoctrinated to believe every one of your "brothers" was out for your best interest. After getting a little older, I realized this was DEFINITELY NOT true. I am capable of the warmest type of love so as to sacrifice myself for someone else, but after exiting the JW I now understand what it means to hate something or someone because not everything in this world is inherently good.
Just a few examples of how my personality has been molded.
It is not religious persecution for an informed person to expose publicly a certain religion as being false, thus allowing persons to see the difference between false religion and true religion.
WT 11/15/1963 page 688 paragraph 3