cobaltcupcake
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What does an "obedient" elder look like?
by nochoice injust a clarification please.
some posters on other threads talked about "obedience" being an important factor to get circuit assembly and district assembly parts.
i don't fully understand.
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Do You Believe In ANYTHING That The Witnesses Taught At This Point In Your Life?
by minimus infor example, they pride themselves in what they don't believe such as immortal souls, the trinity, hellfire, etc.. some exjws still believe it is the "truth" and support the basics.. .
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cobaltcupcake
The only things I've held onto are the core values - being a decent person, loving my neighbor, honesty, etc.
The rest of it just makes me feel tired.
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Goofey CO visit..your comments please
by Kensho ini don't post here often but do read daily, wanted to share a couple of interested things from recent co visit,.
good talk on opening night about forgiveness etc.
etc.. (to bad the borg doesn't practice this) but then on cong.
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cobaltcupcake
"A decision made in heaven days or weeks ago?" How does it get from heaven to the GB? Do they get visions? Dreams? Mysterious emails? Sheesh!
Every cult leader says that they get messages from God.
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My first post...Facebook discussion
by mzmmom ini have been visiting this site for almost a year, and i have found it very useful.
there was a post on a facebook group last night about jw visits and to be nice when they call at your door.
so, after about 100 posts, i posted a link to this website.
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cobaltcupcake
Welcome to the land of the shunned and home of the fade!
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But, they're so HAPPY!
by stillin inyou can't deny it.
smiling and brimming with good cheer.
is it sort of like the person who buys a lemon of a car and won't admit it?
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cobaltcupcake
Absolutely no one would have guessed I was depressed to the point of thinking about suicide every waking minute. Most people said they wanted to have a marriage as happy as our was - he was abusing me.
Right there with you, Lady Lee!
As a teenager my natural expression caused people to tell me, "You look like you're about to cry!" My mother was constantly telling me to "put a coat hanger in your mouth" ( picture it). Our family looked squeaky clean from outside too. But my father was verbally abusive. I hid in my room as much as possible to avoid him.
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My decision about "family shunning"
by Gojira_101 insince i've been off work this week because of spring break, i've really been missing my grandma.
when i have left wt (i'm fading and april will be 6 months) and i told her about january, she has been shunning me.
i told myself "i will respect her wishes/decision..etc" this morning i woke up and said "to hell with shunning!
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cobaltcupcake
I decided the same thing. My 83-year-old mother lives 5000 miles away from me (with my very hard-nosed brother), so it's not like she has a way of finding out if I'm okay. I decided to be merciful. Every few months I send her a letter just to let her know I'm okay and what's going on in my life. I've been doing it for 8 years. About 5 years ago she actually wrote back to me! In her letter she told me that I'm old enough to know what I want, just be careful. She's never written again. I suspect my brother found out that she had answered me and freaked out.
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I played with the Ouija board last night....
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cobaltcupcake
Outlaw - LOL!
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I played with the Ouija board last night....
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cobaltcupcake
You mean it's safe to buy stuff at yard sales?????
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Scary moment: Watchtower Study conductor got mad about answer
by Gorbatchov intoday we had a bla bla bla watchtower article: warnings for technology, money and pride.
a repreat of a repreat of a repreat.. but now it comes:.
one of the last summary questions one of the local simple brothers gave the answer that we have to take care for technology.
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cobaltcupcake
NJY - LOL!!
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My husband MISSED the meeting today! Unheard of!
by Julia Orwell inhe decided to take me somewhere nice in the country for a day instead, and when he suggested it last night i was amazed that he would have even thought of missing the meeting!
he was one of those guys who only missed a meeting, literally, if he had a spinal injury and couldn't move!.
but, i've been sharing a little of the ttatt with him, teensy tiny bits that i can substantiate from the bible or other reputable sources.
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cobaltcupcake
It's a good sign, Julia!