Hey ChangeName,
I was not aware of the JJ website you linked to until I read this thread. I took a look and found it pretty interesting.
I would agree that on the face of it, it does present some compelling arguments that would suggest those that are calling out the WTS on this matter are exaggerating the facts and making a mountain out of a mole hill.
The problem is that it does not address the real issue - i.e. if any rank & file member of the congregation had even an informal relationship with a disapproved organisation then they would face some kind of sanction, perhaps even disfellowshipping, from the congregation. The WTS are hypocrites in the regard regardless of their intent in becoming an affiliated NGO.
I then read the PDF on jwfacts which is an excellent analysis of the JJ site. It presented a number of arguments and points that completely pull the rug from under the JJ stance and get to the nub of the matter. This article does anything but bury it's head in the sand. It examines each point and presents an honest appraisal of the merit of each as objective statements of fact.
After having looked at original content on the matter, the JJ site and the jwfacts essay, I have to conclude that the NGO issue remains a standout example of WTS hypocrisy, evidence that the what the WTS says and what it does are different and yet another case of where bending the rules to suit your purposes is something the WTS is prepared to do anytime it wants but will never afford the same luxury to dear old Bro. or Sis. Lowly.