Doggone it!! Stay away from the board for a little while and I miss all the important threads! (((((((((((Harmony)))))))))) ah sweetie, you know I love you!!! Families can be a real bitch sometimes, but what are you gonna do?? Sorry that your SIL was such a shit; I would guess that she must be a pretty miserable person. Try not to let her infect you too k?
As for being strong, Harm you are one tough lady! And you know, the occasional purging of strong emotion is NOT weakness. In fact, being able to admit it to ourselves and then express it honestly is strength; holding it in and constantly denying it is weak. And hey, Harmony gal, you're my cyber sis. If that ugly ol' troll-witch of an SIL can't appreciate you, who cares?? Coz you've got all kinds of people here who love you and appreciate your many great qualities!
Ok, off to the shower now...hang in there sweetie
Love,
Dana