Posts by Scully

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Need Advice about Grandparents/Blood Doctrine

by SnailsPace2 in

my in-laws are taking my little boy to a different state for small trip and the want me to create a document stating they are allowed to take him over state lines.

which is fine.

my husband would like for me to construct the document and include information concerning medical decisions and that they are only to be made after contacting the parents.

Scully

Are you certain that your inlaws wouldn't use a legal document like that to potentially get you in hot water with the Elders™, especially if you put in writing that you consent to your son receiving blood transfusions if deemed medically necessary?

Are you certain that your inlaws would even respect such instructions related to your son's medical care in the event it was medically necessary?

To be perfectly honest, I would NOT permit a child of mine to have unsupervised time alone with JW grandparents, unless I was a JW myself and agreed 100% with their teachings and doctrines. When you are "fading", Inactive™ or attempting to distance yourself from the JW religion, allowing an impressionable child to have unsupervised access with JW grandparents or other JW relatives who might feel they have a 'mission' to save them from your 'reckless' course of action (i.e., Leaving The Truth™) is asking for trouble.

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Shunning: How would You Overcome it?

by ABibleStudent in

after reading the thread soon to be 18 and quit speaking to her mother- suggestions?, i started thinking of how to use the wtbts's doctrine to help jws to see what is the real purpose of shunning for the wtbts.

hopefully, some good ideas will be posted to this thread and may help exjws and jws to maintain relationships with each other instead of shunning the non-jws.. how would a jw react to the following?.

do christians shun or not associate with non-jws to help non-jws believe that the wtbts has the "truth", to keep the cong clean of non-believers, or to not be shunned?

Scully

You overcome it by not participating in it. They are the ones required by the WTS to shun ex-JWs and there ought to be consequences for such behaviour. The opposite (ex-JWs shunning JWs) is not a requirement - to do so would be to endorse the behaviour and participate in it, and even worse, it endorses the WTS's claim of authority over the ex-JW.

They want to shun you and your spouse, the parents of your children? Then they don't get the privilege of associating with your children and being allowed to treat their ex-JW parent with disrespect (and thereby set an example of disrespecting their parents). If they want to have their grandchildren / nieces / nephews in their lives, they have to behave in a manner that sets an example of acceptance, love and tolerance of everyone, including people whose opinion on religious matters differs from their own.

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They all laughed when I insisted that the Yellowstone caldera was a threat...

by Nathan Natas in

strangely enough, jesus never warned that "there will be wars and rumors of wars, but if the yellowstone caldera blows, we're toast.".

...and jesus' composite bride through the pages of the watchtower, never suggested that deeply-dipped dubs ought to move out of the area downwind of yellowstone, lest they be transformed in the twinkling of an eye into crispy monoliths.. but up here in the uadna orbiting space platform, things are different.

we're rational.

Scully

After a long and deafening public silence, UADNA finally speaks!

How I have missed UADNA bulletins!

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atheist- Is there anything about born again christians you do like?

by unstopableravens in

a.

Scully

They are wonderful when they leave me alone. ;)

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My brother died yesterday

by satinka in

jw
friends

"albert" was 55 years old, and the fifth-born of seven children.

i am the second oldest and babysat him often while he was growing up --- and while i was still at home.. yesterday, albert was out taking his usual morning stroll around his small town, when he collapsed on the sidewalk.

the doctors said it was a heart attack.

Scully

So sorry for your loss, satinka. While Ottawa wasn't nearly as cold as Manitoba was yesterday, your beautiful tribute to your brother warmed my heart.

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Ladies, How Big Is Your Diamond Engagement Ring?

by minimus in

jw
friends

i notice a trend that suggests that many ladies either have a one carat or bigger diamond ring or much smaller if any.. do you have a diamond ring and if you do, what size carat is it?

?.

Scully

The old fashioned way of deciding how much to pay for an engagement ring was two months' the gentleman's salary. Then it went to three months.

It seems to have evolved into much more than that. Personally, I don't like big flashy or gaudy jewellry - I prefer understated and elegant.

You in the market for one, minimus?

To answer your question, mine is a small cluster, probably no more than 0.2 ct. I love it.

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The Gall Of WT To Give This Advice To Pioneers:

by JW GoneBad in

this past week's wt study lesson was entitled: 'pioneering strengthens our relationship with god'.. under the subheading 'remaining in the full-time service' in par 14 the wt has the nerve to give this admonition to pioneers: .

'desiring to learn from jesus' example, a pioneer does well to keep in mind that the more material things he has, the more he will have to maintain , repair, or replace.'.

i don't think the gb or anyone in the writing department has the freedom to speak on giving adivce on the matter of 'material things' given the fact that wt has close to a billion dollars in real estate and loads of money in various bank accounts; given the fact that gb is currently building themselves new living quarters with who knows what sort of comforts and other amenities.

Scully

Considering the individuals in the Writing Department™ have *everything* provided for them, I agree that it's incredibly nervy of them to try to lecture Pioneers™ about enjoying the material things they have - and likely scrimped and saved for - especially when most of them followed the Writing Department™'s advice to stay away from higher education in order to enjoy a better standard of living.

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Do you always try to find something to sue for big money?

by Iamallcool in

jw
friends

i have no desire to sue anyone.

i was wondering if any of you try to find something to sue for?

.

Scully

I have better things to do with my time and money. If people want to be jerks and assholes, it says more about them than it does about me. They are having their reward in full.

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Be honest. Am I an abusive Father??

by DATA-DOG in

i was angry with my kid for questioning me.

i work, i pay the bills, i provide food, clothing and shelter for them.

instead of respect, i get attitude.

Scully

With remarks like the one you threw at your kid, is it any wonder that he has "attitude"?

Look at it another way. Suppose after saying that to your child, something awful happened, like him getting killed in a car accident. Are those really the last words you'd want him to hear from you?

Apologize.

You're the grown up. You're supposed to know better, and you're supposed to set the example for appropriate behaviour. Show him what that looks like so that he can learn from you.

Apologize.

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2013-Apostates are Antichrist!

by Atlantis in

this file is now being passed around by jws!

.. .they claim: ..

(" john specifically mentions apostates as among those of the antichrist by referring to those who went out from us, abandoning the christian congregation.

Scully

That's rich, coming from 8 million people who refuse to participate in the Lord's Evening Meal, i.e., rejecting the blood and body of Jesus.