The Elder at my hall I have the most problem with has two children in there 40s who are still pioneering while he has built as comfortable middle class life. His kids have no children, homes, careers, skills etc etc. The proverbial " Not a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out " , while he plays pretend Grandpa to the young ones.
You watch that video and realize it was never a choice for his kids. They were pressured into doing it because his social standing in his club was more important than his own children's future.
I can't explain how much this pisses me off.