From some of the comments here, maybe we need to define exactly what a child molestor is. Would gently squeezing a child's shoulder so that it made him feel "not right" be considered molestation? Seems to me some here think so.
A child molestor is a person who has sexual intercourse with an invidual under the local law's age of sexual consent.
How about pedophile? That an adult who is sexually attracted to children. I'm not convinced MJ was either.
How about this? What if a person is mentally a child and has the desire to "play doctor" with another child?