JGnat, that was perfect............put it all into perspective for all of us as a reminder when we start feeling sorry for ourselves..............I have found that the more proactive I am for my own happiness, the happier I become! I have also learned how to be comfortable when I am alone. It's taken some time and hard work on my part, but, I strongly encourage you to do it........it makes you feel great....that you have a certain amount of strength and independence, all very good qualities to have!
Terri