We all have memories of the borg that we care to forget. But to move ahead with life, we all must face them and overcome them.
I think it's terrible the way that such a "loving people" treat each other and then are praised for it. I personally would've slapped someone who insisted that I had gained weight when I in fact hadn't. I would've probably kicked an elder who told me that he hoped I wouldn't be a burden on the congregation (oh wait, I have done that when an elder in my old Hall told me I was a burden on my dad when I was in fact supporting myself and no longer living under his roof ).
But I think that all our bad experiences and all our suffering has made us all appreciate the simplest things in life that most take for granted. Things such as thinking for ourselves and making our own decisions. It makes us stronger.
edited to clarify that it was my stepdad and not my dad. My dad thinks that all JW's are nutcases that should be locked up in isolated padded cells.
Shelly
Former victim and recovering wonderfully from a broken spirit
Smile, because we all have been freed from slavery!!