I never went threw anything like that.I left because I wanted out.
This is easier said than done....You know,you really DON'T have to go if you DON'T want to.If you want out,tell them to put there little meeting,you know where.I had elders come to my door before I wrote my DA letter,and I told them not to come to my door again...I told them I want nuttin to do with them.I did get a bit too angry but I was so sick of the control.I was only 22 at the time,but felt like a 12 yr old.I was so immature for my age then.Too many controled me,I couldn't grow.....
Are you brave enough to take control of the meeting?Take someone with you,they are allowed to have more than one witness and so are you!If they say no,walk away.Just my opinion....I can't stand the way he do things ..makes me i'll
Well take care and hold your chin up.Hugs to you.