You weren't a JW in the 70's or 80's or 90's, were you?
LOL, I wasn't even born. I'm still in my twenties. My family is sort of JWs but not real strong since Covid.
I guess those years were a pretty crazy time to be a Jehovah Witness.
It's not like that anymore. Only the old timers are very strict, but the young ones don't pay any attention to them. Of course there are some young ones that want to be elders but not very many. Even then, those wanna be elders go to night clubs, do Serena stuff, and don't take all the rules seriously.
I don't attend the Kingdom Hall anymore, but once in a while I go to hear a relative's talk and the kingdom Halls are not like most JWs describe them.
Here's a post on reddit who describes exactly what a Kingdom Hall looks like these days. Keep in mind that almost all the men and boys have beards, very few of the women wear dresses, Some of the speakers wear a tie, a coat and tennis shoes. It's not like my dad tells me that they used to all wear suits, ties, dress shoes, and the women were all dressed in nice modest dresses.
Oh, and most don't attend the KH, they ZOOM, Plus, nobody really goes out in service door to door anymore. It's carts and letter writing.
You can read the rest here to get an idea of what a KH looks like now days.He describes it pretty well.
Is it just me or does the atmosphere feel different? Or should I say indifferent?
I wonder if it’s because I am PIMO, but I honestly think there is a lack of enthusiasm and apathy now.
These are things I have noticed:
Yesterday, the attendant minding the front door could barely muster a
smile. He just looked put out to be there at all. At least a third of
the congregation strolled in late. A lot are openly texting on their
phone.
Also, frumpiness and sloppiness seem to be acceptable now. Running
shoes with suits. Very casual and sometimes wrinkled pants worn by the
boys handling the mics. I personally couldn’t care less what people
wear, my point is that these things would not have been acceptable in
the past (pre-pandemic and pre-changes to dress and grooming)
It’s interesting that I have seen the wife of an elder at maybe 4
meetings in the past year and their 2 children once. Apparently on Zoom.
Good for them, but aren’t they supposed to be “exemplary”? 😏
The same people commenting meeting after meeting and the same small group of sisters who actually give talks.
Am I being hopeful in this gradual decline of enthusiasm? I wonder.
https://www.reddit.com/r/exjw/comments/1imaglr/my_fellow_pimos_does_it_feel_different_at_the/