Her friendship with you is conditional ,you remain a JW or she doesn`t want to know you .
That should be all you need to know .
You are a much better person because you could be still friends with her knowing she is a JW however she can`t be friends anymore with you because you are no longer a JW .
Emotional blackmail
Controlling
manipulative
Your better off putting it down to one of life`s experiences and moving on with your own life..
Take care .