LongHairGal
And the change of attitude for everyone is of no fault of their own. What else were you supposed to do now that the horizon was so uncertain.
And yet, not too long ago... perhaps 2016... a couple of elders still came up to me and essentially judged me for working on meeting nights during my company's 4th quarter rush. I told them sorry peeps, but I gotta support my family. They proceeded to give me the old not enough faith schpeal to which I responded don't worry I'll be back to weekday meetings by January.
To be fair, some elders I knew were totally fine with that. Unfortunately, the judgemental ones by definition were always the loudest.