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  "Circuits with Congregation Details", Effective September 1, 2016. Official Statistical for Dominican Republic, leaked.

  by hildebrando in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  official information of congregations, languages, publishers, elders, ministerial servants, pioneers, special pioners, and names of circuit overseers, all in english:.

  https://hildeydesa.blogspot.cl/2016/07/asambleas-de-circuito-2017-y-sesion-con.html.

  bonus track in spanish: all outlines for circuit assemblies 2017, and annual pioneer meeting....

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  scratchme1010

  Gracias, Hildebrando. A few decades ago I went to the KH in La Romana (I'm half Domincan).
  

  Question, why do the WT in the DR are called the "Dominican Society of Jehovah's Witnesses"? Isn't "Jehovah" not supposed to care about countries?
  
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  Hello from the other side

  by Theburstbubble in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  well it's been 18 months since i left the witnesses.

  my goodness what can i say?

  well let's start from the beginning.... 1) i am happy, yes i am (i know im not meant to be as the jw's would like to believe).

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  scratchme1010

  No, no, NO!!! You are lying! Wait, ah, I know, Stan is seducing you with worldly things, of course. Soon, very soon you will find yourself so entangled in the webs of sin that your path to destruction will be so sad, that you will come back begging to get accepted (so you can get judged, bitter, regain you tunnel vision, believe that you have to live for nothing more than what you are told to do, you know, "paradise" and stuff).

  Seriously now, I'm glad, and as a person with a few decades of experience outside the WT, please keep up with the same attitude and love for life if (when?) something bad happens. Remember, the WT loves to capitalize in other people's misery, so if there is an unfortunate event in your life or if life takes a turn for the worse, don't forget your post.

  Many JWs who join the WT do so because they do suffer and bad things do happen. Life can be scary, but even so, it's way better without the Wt and their nonsense. Congratulations.
  
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  jws not only ones blind to what is in front of them

  by blondie in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  http://www.cnn.com/2016/07/19/politics/melania-trump-michelle-obama-speech/index.html.

  "i just don't see it," christie told cnn's jamie gangel in an interview tuesday, adding later, .

  here's the key moment in trump’s speech:.

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  Let's see: Melania is a model from Rumania, English is not her first language, and she's married to Donald Trump. That right there tells me how far up her /\ss her head is. Leave alone having depth of though enough to write any speech. It was plagiarized, though I don't think that it was her idea. She's just a puppet.

  I do believe that not only it was plagiarized, but that it was purposely plagiarized. Will her speech be in the media at all if it didn't create any controversy? Will her husband be anywhere without controversy? Of course, not. Trump's entire platform is about this kind of things, so why not Melania's speech?
  
  
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  All Day K.H. Maintenance Meeting !!!!

  by Poztate in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  the whole congregation was required to sign up for this all day program.what are they going to talk about for the full day.

  maybe a one hour talk by an elder about "responsible toilet cleaning in this time of the end" with demos as how it can be accomplished.

  only sisters seem to need to listen to that one.. maybe cutting grass to the proper height so we don't bring reproach on jehovah's name.

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  Never heard of such thing before. There were meetings related to the facilities, but one-day affairs? Never heard of it.
  
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  Why are anniversaries allowed but not birthdays?

  by hyperpen in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  the scripture quotes aside, i was always told that we don't celebrate birthdays because that is a celebration of the self, which has no place in jehovah's organization.

  then why celebrate anniversaries?

  anniversary celebrations are about the joining of two selves, isn't that twice as selfish?.

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  Indeed. Just because. No logic, no sense.
  
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  An Odd Request from Our Ex-JW Son

  by TMS in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  my wife and i, both out of the religion for nearly twenty years, live in the same border town as our 44 year old only son.

  we have scant contact with our numerous jw relatives, although a handful of clever "double life" nieces and nephews socialize with our son.. we care for our six year old grandson weekdays while our single parent son makes a living.

  we've been infinitely better grandparents than we were parents, primarily because of our exit from a high control cult, but also because of life experience.

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  A lot of young parents believe that exposing their children to everything there is (of course, age appropriate things and in a language that they can relate to) to let them decide what/who they are, but also because hiding certain things that people believe or do creates distrust in parents.

  I wish I had a parent who took the time to explain things (even the JW stuff). At a tender age I was hearing about bestiality, fornication, horses being followed by death, you get the point, with no context and in a language I didn't understand.

  I think "teaching" is a strong word for letting them know about the existence of the bible and its content. Being exposed to the reality of what the world contains is not a bad thing.
  
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  So Today Was My Wife's First Ever Birthday Party

  by dubstepped in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  she turned one today, and 36 earlier this week.

  we planned a big party, big for two people that have never thrown a party before.

  we rented a church fellowship hall because 1. it was nice and big and affordable and 2. it was kind of awesome to throw a party in a place we would have never ventured in our previous life.

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  That's awesome! Happy birthday.
  
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  What crime should elders report?

  by kramer in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so, i am trying to get my head around what the right position of elders should be when they come across crime is.. i think i get the issuess around clergy confidentiality - and how that might potentially be breached when they talk about it to other elders, let alone the police.. but if people are saying that elders - or clergy of another faith should report crime to the police when it is confessed to the, then where are the boundaries.. so if someone says they should report to police on a confessed example of child abuse, that's one thing.. how about reporting to police consensual sex between a 19year old and 15 year old - which is statutory rape in the uk.

  how about criminal fraud if they come across it.

  assault on a congregant?.

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  Just trying to think through the issue, and input would be appreciated
  

  Very simple. They should report every single crime that they come across or know of. Just because they claim not to be part of the world, it doesn't mean that they actually are. They are citizens of their own country and have the exact same responsibilities that everybody else. Period.
  
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  My son is coming home to me soon. Yey!!!

  by KateWild in

  1. social
  2. family

  my son sent me a wonderful song a month ago on this thread.

  https://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/5704271907520512/my-wonderful-son.

  it's amazing how a bad experience can trigger action.

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  scratchme1010

  Congratulations. It is a small good thing among many others surrounding him.

  Not to be pessimistic, but remember, he's 16 and a teenager looking for his place in this world. It's great that he decided to live with you, but please don't let this become his game. If you have a disagreement later, he should not just then go to dad, and then start using you two for his advantage and do as he pleases.

  Just keep that in mind. Sometimes people get ideas.
  
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  But where else should we go? Can you answer this question?

  by purrpurr in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  having watched many jc youtube videos one question that gets asked is "where else would you go?".

  in other words if not jehovah's witnesses then what other religion or organisation would you go to?.

  it's one that i have trouble answering, what would you say?.

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  scratchme1010

  Having watched many JC YouTube videos one question that gets asked is "where else would you go?". In other words if not Jehovah's witnesses then what other religion or organisation would you go to?

  It's one that I have trouble answering, what would you say?

  To me it's not really that deep. That's the oldest trick in the book that cults use to gain converts. True, some people may not have an answer to that question, but what they are doing is throwing a smoke cloud to what I believe is the important thing to consider, which is this: Why are you feeling like you need a place to go? What exactly is triggering that need for looking/finding some place to belong? What need do you have that makes you start that quest? What is missing that makes you feel like you need to ask questions and look for answers?

  Most people address the need to belong somewhere without stepping back a little ans ask themselves why, what are they feeling that many other people don't, that makes them go look for answers? Why do you have to "go somewhere"? Looking for what? Support, company, comfort, answers, a sense of safety from the state of the world, an explanation to their suffering, hope for a better future?

  I truly believe that the most important part is not finding a place to go, but asking yourself why are you looking for a place to go in the first place, and then address the answer to that question.