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  Why "fancy dress" and "theme weddings" were BANNED by our Congregation!

  by Witness 007 in

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  our kingdom hall was in a boring town of 30,000 people so to spice things up me and some special pioneers living with us decided to have a fancy dress up party!

  what could go wrong?

  nice clean fun, and no booze (oh crap!).

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  ...and a Pioneer bro dressed up as a ballarena with full female make up!
  

  Damn! The one thing I never got to do
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  Tell me what you think

  by Ft2188 in

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  i left 5 years ago and even though i've had therapy and have been medicated somehow, something from the last creeps up on me.

  i started writing a book, mostly for my own healing.

  i wrote a letter to my parents of everything i had wanted to say but knew i wouldn't get a chance to.

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  would it be considered inappropriate to ask forums like this for willing participants to send me their letters? I would keep everything anonymous if requested. Thanks for your input!
  

  Thanks for sharing. I thnk your idea is great to share with people who know and understand where the writers come from. The forum admins can tell you about how appropriate it is, but I think that's a great idea.

  With me, the thing is that I actually wrote my letters about 20 years ago (I uses Lotus AmiPro word processing program!). Your idea is making me want to revisit my life at that time. Makes me take a look at my way of thinking back then.

  I may share them. Thanks.
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  Great Simulator to Demonstrate How Evolution Works

  by Simon in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  fascinating - setting up some simple rules and a way to apply evolutionary pressure and the creatures learn the best way to run:.

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gofws_hhzs8.

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=31dsh2fs1iq.

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  scratchme1010

  Very nice, thanks for sharing.
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  Is it me?

  by MTSman in

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  2. friends

  so, i’ve been out going on 10 years and at times i think about going back, but i can never muster the energy.

  over the last few however, i’ve noticed that a lot of people who were in good standing, and pillars in the congregation and org are now df’d.

  most know i’ve been out for a while and see that i’m doing pretty good and want to talk or get together.

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  but really don’t want to hang out with the MFers that a few years ago looked at me like I was some syphilitic outcast.
  

  No, you're not the only one. A lot of those JW assholes that made my life difficult are in the same place, divorced, disfellowshipped, in summary, life just happens.

  My take on that is that many of those self righteous idiots do that to shift the focus away from their own actions and who/how they really are. Life does catch up. Karma is a bitch.

  Goes to show that just because JWs claim that they aren't part of the world, doesn't mean that they aren't.
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  Strip off the old personality

  by eyeuse2badub in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  yesterday’s watchtower talked about how by becoming a jw it enabled “worldly” people to ‘strip off the old personality’ and make really significantly good changes in their life.. paragraph named 4 individuals (anonymous names of course and probably embellished tales)) sakura, ribeiro, stephen, and hans.

  their lives changed for the good because they found god or because they became jw’s---right?.

  so on the way home from this wt meeting, my wife commented to me how wonderful our brotherhood is and how it helps people who would otherwise be ‘lost’ n this world.

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  To me this goes to my point that a lot of people join for reasons other than caring about life forever or whether God is a trinity or not. They find comfort and a way to stay away from a lifestyle that have harmed them in a past, and don't necessarily care about doctrine or prophecy.

  This is why when helping others out, they may not care much about discussing discrepancies in the things they say.
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  Ok I feel like a dumb ass. Men have one less rib than women..

  by James Mixon in

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  2. bible

  why in the hell would we (men) have one less rib...help me folks the adam and eve story has screwed up my thinking...

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  Why in the hell would we (men) have one less rib...Help me folks the Adam and Eve story has screwed up my thinking.
  

  As I remember, wasn't that supposed to be just Adam? Anyway, today you know better. That's what matters. At least you're not one of those who refuse to listen to anything else.
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  Shunning: Extreme apathy!

  by StephaneLaliberte in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i thought i'd share this one with the group.

  many years ago, my mom was disfellowshipped.

  then, my sister passed away in a car accident, she was fairly young, as she was in her early 20s.

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  In all honesty, this has been one of the most excruciating experiences of my life.
  

  No kidding. I'm so sorry to hear that. How is it now?
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  Strip off the old personality

  by eyeuse2badub in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  yesterday’s watchtower talked about how by becoming a jw it enabled “worldly” people to ‘strip off the old personality’ and make really significantly good changes in their life.. paragraph named 4 individuals (anonymous names of course and probably embellished tales)) sakura, ribeiro, stephen, and hans.

  their lives changed for the good because they found god or because they became jw’s---right?.

  so on the way home from this wt meeting, my wife commented to me how wonderful our brotherhood is and how it helps people who would otherwise be ‘lost’ n this world.

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  ...these types of success stories are not unique to jw’s. All religions and other organizations, such as AA, have the same types of experiences. She went silent but I could see that she heard what I said.
  

  That is absolutely true. There are plenty of other places, events and religions that can help and/or inspire people to make positive changes in their lives.
  

  Most importantly is that in the case of the JWs, you never hear any follow up to those stories. I remember way back when they published this ridiculous story about a gay man who stopped being gay after becoming a JW. That story was constantly used against every LGBT JW person to show them that it's possible to change one's sexual orientation.

  However, I did my own research and found that the person in that story got disfellowshipped after his story came out, and guess why he was disfellowshipped?

  There never is a follow up to those so-called success stories, mostly because part 2 of those people's lives may not be as great as they claim.
  
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  The Ever-Changing Song Book

  by Cimarrona in

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  2. experiences

  the songs in the old brown song book were way better than these new ones.

  had they not changed the songs, i may never have left (halfway joking).

  they gave no feeling, no soul (but of course there's no such thing as soul or whatever)!

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  Brown song book? I actually remember the old Pink song book!!!!
  

  Yes, there was one before the pink.
  
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  Shunning Unbiblical

  by maccauk in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  the word shunning is an old english word which has not history pre 18th century.

  the practice of avoiding, hiding,ignore or reject was used in the bible against another according to the law.

  the law was still in force up until the consumation of the age when jerusalem, the temple, the old covenants were all destroyed forever and when the messiah came back for his elect with the resurrected at the same time.

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  scratchme1010

  Who cares.