We are sharing accommodation in our home so it is absolute hell being in the face of family that have shunned us [we are not "officially" Df'ed / DA'ed] - all the time and passing each other in the passageway and not speaking etc-
We have discovered they have snooped on our computers looking for "evidence" and of course as I am the BiL it has become convenient for them to accuse me of being the perp. of my wife's downfall from the JW - even though my beloved is "further out" than I am -
So I identify strongly with you atacrossroads
Nevertheless the emotions at play will wreak havoc on your psyche' -
You may find the info at these links helpful:
http://marvinshilmer.blogspot.co.za/2012/02/watchtower-shunning-deadly-by-design.html
And especially this link on preparing for a JC :
http://marvinshilmer.blogspot.co.za/2012/03/judicial-committee-preparation.html