Dear dungbeetle, I am sorry I have not got much time right now to go into each of your points in detail, it would require more time than I have right now to write, and also of course to find background quotes etc. But, in general, I have no problems in seeing the problems with these points, and in saying that many of them fall into what I referred to as legalism, as the points where the organizational rules and proceedings have poor basis for them in the Bible. With 'no problem' below, I mean that I have no problems in seeing the poor or failing Bible basis.
Point 11 - no problem, should be reported directly.
Point 10 - no problem, have experienced it in my own family.
Point 9 - no problem.
Point 8 - no problem, I do not know anything about Japan, and I know very little about how this is done elsewhere, but of course people should be encouraged to ask as many questions, do as much reading etc. as possible beforehand, because once the doors are shut behind you, the emergency exit might be hard to find.
Point 7 - yes and no; I do not feel I have to tell everybody everything, including the things they did not ask for, but once a definite question is asked, a truthful reply should be given. Differs between whether one is speaking about a personal level of communication, where I have no problems in stating to someone that "I do not wish to reply to or comment on that" or if one is asked by a journalist or policeman for example.
Point 6 - having stuck to left-wing political opinions for all my life prior to becoming a Witness and still being at heart a left-winger, this has been a problem for me, firstly that the organization is so USA-based, and white-uneducated-middle-class, secondly that there have been very few black people - or anything but the above-mentioned for that part - in the leadership. They have been out in the field, but not behind the desks.
Point 5 - no problem; people should find out for themselves, as long as one part is not forcing his / her opinions on the other part.
Points 3 and 4 - have become more and more difficult to handle or understand since blood is divided into parts, of which some are acceptable and some are not. I have made my choice, and others should make theirs, and then all of us in the final end stand responsible to the Creator. If it was an enforced "No", then it was of little value after all. Life is sacred to me, I take care of small birds that have flown into the windows, and have spent hours trying to make them well again. I wept yesterday, as we bid farewell to an old riding-horse after 12 years of faithful service at the riding school, although he is not going to the sausage maker, but to a nice farm to live his final years as a pensioner. Life is sacred, and I know in my heart what I will do if one of my children or closest ones experience this - but I will tell noone. It is my decision.
Point 2 - no problem.
Point 1 - much the same as point 6, but you have some nasty Bible utterings.....
OK, as I said, just some scattered lines and no way a final reply, but just - some thoughts. People can be traced .......
Greetings