When I was in junior high there was a school assembly and there was an entire class onstage for some reason or another. This was the class that the current POs daughter was in and I clearly saw her doing the flag salute. Her hand was on her heart, her lips were moving, etc.
I was nice and didn't say anything--I could certainly understand her predicament, but a couple of years later after we had moved far away when I mentioned this to my parents they told me that I must have just imagined it. Over the years I faded and was eventually DFed and she, of course, was considered a fine sister--married in the truth, pioneered, the whole works.
When I mention anything like this to my Mom she just says that eventually these people get caught out by means of Jehovah's spirit.
At my Dad's JW memorial service about 15 years ago I was there with my 15 year old "delinquent" daughter (we were not JWs). She was pretty wild and she told me that she spotted one of her "bad-boy" friends at the service. I guess they both hung out with the same partiers, smoked pot, shoplifted, you name it. They were both shocked and asked each other, "What are YOU doing here?" She said, "It's my Grandfather's funeral" but it turned out he was the son of one of the elders!!
I was always told that the main reason my daughter had so many problems was because I had "left Jehovah". I wonder what that boy's parents excuse was.