Hi essie,
I too felt that way in the beginning. In fact even before I re-registered,I had lurked and saw some rather unkind comments about what to do when the h20'ers came to town.
I mentioned my concerns on the old board,after seeing these comments. I also mailed Simon,at that time, regarding the negativity shown by those posters. But I must say,from the very beginning,waiting ,7/9,and simon were open,welcoming and kind. They encouraged me to come over here in fact!
And then as some of the others got to know us,I felt more and more welcomed.But don't doubt your perceptions,because there still are some who resent us being here. I see and sense their coldness by their lack of interaction on ANY post written by former h20'ers and by their lamenting about the changes.Growth and change are difficult for some.Like Java said,don't take it personally,it's their problem. You posts have helped so many and touched the hearts of them too. I read everyone of your posts,I learn from them,and your insights!
It's not easy being 'the new kid on the block',but with time I hope it all works out positively.
The only abusers here are the trolls,with their multiple identities.
And the very few who are taken in by them,and defend them,thinking they are doing a service to the board,when the reality is they feed and entertain the trolls with their stupidity-but like I said that is only a very very few.
These troll defenders call some of us feather headed broads, fools,uncaring unkind,non-nurturung,tell us to shut up and sit down,tell us to leave the board, and many many other nasty names and labels,(and they call this openminded,tolerant, warmth ,lol yeah right)they fortunately showed their true colors.These are the one/s I would encourage you to avoid,as they find out-spoken women a threat to their fantasy of male domination and control.(unless you respond to them with the 'proper' groveling and scraping they expect) No one (thinking person anyway)misunderstood what they saw and read, regarding what most of the world today considers an immoral view of women.
Anyway,I'm sure with the passage of more time,the blend will get smoother. It is truly a great place her,with many many fine,kind, and intelligent people!,hugs,Tina
Carl Sagan on balancing openness to new ideas with skeptical scrutiny...."if you are open to the point of gullibility and have not an ounce of skeptical sense,you cannot distinguish useful ideas from worthless ones."