I say go for it. He knows you, where you come from as far as JW land, what you’ve been through to get out and where you’re headed. He’s a big boy. I think it would be harder explaining your background to someone who knows nothing of your background.
CADSkin
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I am in LOV.....I mean LIKE!!!
by MsGrowingGirl20 inhi alll!
well, i'm good!.
i haven't been to the hall in like 5 months.
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JW bumper stickers
by innerpeace inso my husband (who was never a jw) saw a christian bumper sticker today and asked me if the witnesses have any.
i said no (not that i know of anyway) so here are a few he came up with.. 'honk if you're a zombie'.
'my other car is noah's ark'.
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CADSkin
"Ran out of Gas...JW's said the end was so close don't bother filling the tank!" "God and 9 old dudes from Brooklyn are my co-pilot"
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Will the Watchtower Society benefit from the looming financial collapse?
by redvip2000 inif you have your eyes and ears open and can put 2 and 2 together, you have like many of us, have figured out that there is an impending financial collapse in the united states.
the type of financial collapse that likely has never been seen.. whether you believe this is being done intentionally by global power hungry groups bent on bringing us to our knees, in order to push their agenda, or whether it is being done out of carelessness and stupidity is hardly relevant at this point.. the writing is on the wall.
experts (and all who want to) can see it , high level officials expect it, and are already implementing the contingencies that are needed in order handle the civil unrest that will ensue.
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CADSkin
I don’t think a financial collapse is coming. In the last 6 months I’ve seen construction projects that were put on the shelf 6 years ago break ground and start up again. These aren’t small or fed/state jobs. I’m seeing $200 million private funded 40 story jobs that have 90% bank funding prior to construction. This is a good sign of economic recovery.
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A Challenge: Better This Catchcry: "2020 HALLS WILL EMPTY"
by steve2 inon another thread, stay alive til 2020, caliber persuasively reasoned that, by 2020, there will have been a significantly even-greater trend of decline in publisher numbers.
the statistical workout caliber provided to support this assertion is impressive and i can only say "wow!
i want to stay tuned!
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CADSkin
2020 Hindsight... The year the light was too bright!
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Complaints About My False Eyelashes at the Hall. WEARING THEM EVEN BIGGER TONIGHT.
by OneStepOut93 inokay so i like dramatic lashes.
and my grandma told me all the women are complaining about them being a distraction.
well all i have to say to them is "kiss my ass".
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CADSkin
I used to be confronted about having a shaved head when I was a teen. I'd always say "How long should my fringes be." That always shut them up quick.
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Stay Alive Til 2020
by FrankWTower ini've been playing around with wt statistics recently, helped by the great data available on jwfacts.com.
i wanted to share somehting with the community, maybe you've seen something like this before.. continuing the trend of decline seen during the last 30 years, i was able to extrapolate the year when wt growth might finally end.
if trends continue, we may only have to wait about 8 more years, 9 years to see it reported if the wt decides to report it at all, to see publisher growth end and possibly reverse.. the graph shows the annual growth rate of average publishers during the last 31 years.
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CADSkin
Not catchy enough. It needs to rhyme. "Stayin' alive 'till 75"
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I'm writing a DA letter...need advise
by nolongerconfused inhello, so i have decided to da myself and will write a da letter to the body of elders.... do you have any ideas of what i can include in this letter or samples?...
i really want to make a huge impact with this letter.. i appreciate your help everyone....
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CADSkin
Everyone gains closure differently. Mine was through counseling. Yours may be through a DA letter. My two cents, if you are truly free than why play by the rules. I hope you find what you’re seeking.
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To those still "in" - how do you keep up a facade?
by magotan ini can't come out until the summertime.
in the mean time, i have to feign interest like i want to stay so i don't end up homeless.. .
i can't sit at the meetings without getting visibily irritated.
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CADSkin
When I was forced to go I’d get a Spanish bible and follow along every time a scripture was read. 5 hours of meetings a week and you really start to pick it up. 20 years and a little rosetta stone and I still have a pretty good grasp of the language. You can use the time to learn a foreign language and your parents will think you’re finally coming around. Not much has changed for me. I’m now sitting at work listening to Italian getting ready for my 20 th anniversary Italy trip.
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Ever wonder this about the annointed?
by free2beme inso in the congregation you had those wine and bread loving annointed people?
but i ask, why did the men that were annointed not immediately appointed as an elder, and then a circuit overseer and so on up the ranks.
it would seem to me, that if god saw them fit to rule in heaven.
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CADSkin
A good friend of mine claimed to be anointed. Great guy but one f’d up family. He always supported all his kids no matter what they did so they wouldn’t allow him to get privileges He could talk the elders in circles using the bible so they avoided having any meaningful discussions with him. The elders would just discredit him and say he was a liar.
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For the Faders...
by Kool Jo inthis is for my fellow faders...just checking to see how it is going for ya'll?.
i know it can be tough...my fade has been going well thus far...hopefully it remains the same!.
people may think of you differently...as being distracted...no longer loving jehovah...giving in to the world ect.... now i couldn't care less what any of them think of me...i went into town a few days go where some jw's were doing street work at the local market and i walked by them like they never even existed .
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WhichWay2go: It's very easy to move to another cong in the same area without moving your house.
All it takes is one person who is a known gossip. Tell the gossip you’ve had a quarrel of a personal nature with someone in the cong and that you feel the best solution would be to move halls so as not to cause disharmony. Never give an indication as to whom or the reason why and it will be taken that you are a very spiritual person and not one to gossip. Worked for me.