Vitameatavegamin

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  On shunning

  by joelbear in

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  on shunning.. the watchtower basically points to two reasons to shun people:.

  1) it will make the wrongdoer think about their course of life and help them to come back to "the truth".. 2) it will protect your faith in jehovah and will keep you from being stumbled.. i think there are really 2 other reasons.. 1) fear of being shunned themselves for associating with you.. 2) to punish you for not thinking or being like them anymore.

  kind of a revenge thing.

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  Wannahelp;

  I am not saying to literally ignore him and not reply to his posts, I am encouraging those who are offended by his replies to ignore the nature of them. Ny has made some rude remarks to me on some of my posts that I felt were totally unecessary. What is the purpose in being that way? Almost everything he/she replies is sarcastic or just downright rude and uncalled for, not encouraging in the least. I think this person just loves to get reactions from people, and is not here for any other purpose.

  Just my humble opinion.
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  joke time

  by BATHORY in

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  this ones for unc.

  a team of archaeologists was excavating in israel when they came upon a cave.

  you see, im a genie, and ive been trapped in that bottle for a thousand years.

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  Vitameatavegamin

  Here is a stupid joke:

  What did the elephant say to the naked man?

  " that's cute, but can it pick up peanuts "?
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  On shunning

  by joelbear in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  on shunning.. the watchtower basically points to two reasons to shun people:.

  1) it will make the wrongdoer think about their course of life and help them to come back to "the truth".. 2) it will protect your faith in jehovah and will keep you from being stumbled.. i think there are really 2 other reasons.. 1) fear of being shunned themselves for associating with you.. 2) to punish you for not thinking or being like them anymore.

  kind of a revenge thing.

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  Just ignore NyeTelecom; he is always saying something insensitive. I question whether he is really a JW or just an antagonizer.....or maybe both!

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  I've Had It - I Just Can't Do it Anymore

  by troubled in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  well, it seems we're back to the same "you're a troll; you're not a troll" thing.

  it seems that my posts make too many of you "uncomfortable," you have an "intuition," you "can't put your finger on it," whatever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

  i thought this was a place where people can post and be heard.

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  Troubled,

  Hi! Please don't give up-it does get a little hairy here sometimes-just fire right back at'em! Alot of us came here for encouragement and I think at times this forum defeats it's own purpose. Whatever your decision, I wish you well. All I can say to the people who are hasseling you is GET A LIFE!!

  Good Luck!!

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  I've Had It - I Just Can't Do it Anymore

  by troubled in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  well, it seems we're back to the same "you're a troll; you're not a troll" thing.

  it seems that my posts make too many of you "uncomfortable," you have an "intuition," you "can't put your finger on it," whatever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

  i thought this was a place where people can post and be heard.

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  Vitameatavegamin

  Troubled,

  Hi! Please don't give up-it does get a little hairy here sometimes-just fire right back at'em! Alot of us came here for encouragement and I think at times this forum defeats it's own purpose. Whatever your decision, I wish you well. All I can say to the people who are hasseling you is GET A LIFE!!

  Good Luck!!

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  dealing with shunning

  by serenaj92 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i had a nonreligious email that was just cute and funny and sent it to everyone i considered a friend.

  some were witnesses.

  one gal, sara, sent me a letter of reply.

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  To Teejay,

  Well said, my thoughts exactly! I said the same thing to my husband today when we were discussing those who have mistreated us. They don't fully realize the pain they are causing.

  Thanks!

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  Christian love, my @$$

  by mindfield in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  indeed... since i decided that i wouldn't be a publisher any longer and make no more talks, i've noticed more people avoiding me, talking less to me, etc.

  i mean, what is this crap?

  i wasn't baptized, i still maintain exemplary behaviour, etc.

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  Hey fed up,

  I hear you. I am going through the same crap. Last year, my 12 year old son's best friend was no longer allowed to associate with him. Why? because we were'nt "regular" enough at meetings. His mother however allowed him to associate with another boy in the hall because he WAS regular at meetings. The outcome? The other boy ended up in some serious trouble. My son by the way has never been in trouble and has better moral values than most of the young people who were at the meetings. Twisted huh? In the meantime my son was so devastated that he does not even wan't to attend the Kingdom hall any more. Tragic..... Good luck Fed up. Wish you well!

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  Fibre Optic Christmas Tree

  by ISP in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i was thinking of getting one of these...because they look really cool.

  the elders may not like it but i think its just like a lava lamp thing....what do ya think?.

  isp

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  Vitameatavegamin

  I think the fiber optic trees are way cool. I have been thinking myself of sneaking a tree in the house, but someone would see it. My husband and I would love to go christmas crazy and deck out the house, but alas....would cause us much trouble. Maybe eventually.

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  Categories and Labels

  by Vitameatavegamin in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  have you ever felt as a jw that you had a label on your forehead?

  there may be a good reason for that feeling.

  i don't know why, but i was thinking about this today and wondering if the elders and others in the cong.

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  Hey JBean-

  I felt the others were more positions than labels. That is why I did not mention them. Thanks !
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  Categories and Labels

  by Vitameatavegamin in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  have you ever felt as a jw that you had a label on your forehead?

  there may be a good reason for that feeling.

  i don't know why, but i was thinking about this today and wondering if the elders and others in the cong.

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  Have you ever felt as a JW that you had a label on your forehead? There may be a good reason for that feeling. You do!
  I don't know why, but I was thinking about this today and wondering if the Elders and others in the Cong. know you by name or do they know you by category? Let's take a look at these for a moment:

  1. Unbaptized publisher

  2. Approved Associate

  3. Unapproved associate

  4. Publisher

  5. Irregular

  6. Inactive

  7. Marked

  8. Reproved

  9. Disfellowshipped

  10. Apostate

  A name for everything.

  Vita.