Hi Rosalee.
It seems to be it's all semantics. You said that the mature brothers in your congregation are not interested in counting time, but in finding meek ones. Well, they feel that way because the Watchtower organization tells them to. It tells them to go from door to door seeking meek ones to come to Jehovah's. Sounds great, huh? A lofty and noble assignment.
What the Watchtower organization does not tell the brothers is that their door to door preaching is actually a recruitment technique. Oh, they clothe it in pretty language so that the brothers feel that they are working for Jehovah when, in fact, the brothers are spending their time seeking recruits for the Watchtower organization. It's a multi-tiered operation.
For example, say you Rosalee are working in field service looking as you call it "for meek ones to come to Jehovah." If you can win that person over, he/she in time will become one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Then that person will engage in the door to door work and find someone else that wants to be a Jehovah's Witnesses. Neither you or your new recruits know the real reason you are being recruited.
Every new person that the Watchtower recruits with the aid of free salesmen, contributes monetarily to the organization. So every new recruit is money in the bank. Sometimes these new recruits have property that they Will to the society, sometimes they have life savings they they give to the organization. Sometimes, the recruit lives from paycheck to paycheck but because he is told that contributing to the world wide work is something Jehovah wants, he gives a portion of his small earnings each week to the Watchtower. He truly believes that he is doing it for Jehovah, but it is only going to finance a man made organization.
The bigger the organization becomes the more credible it becomes, the more people it can attract, the richer it becomes, and so on.
When Pastor Russell declared that organized religion was a snare and a racket, he was just not whistling Dixie.
Are JW's generally better than average people? Well, average people do not have their habits, tastes and desires legislated by the Watchtower organization, giving the appearance that they are a better class of people.