Some of them do mean well..... but personally I have had such negative and damaging experiences dealing with SOME of them that I have been frightened off approaching ANY of them! Which is a shame because when it works, the concern and care from someone who genuinely loves or cares about you is a refreshing and encouraging thing.
Just final thought.... How many people would approach an amateur
and ask for help in dealing with their problems etc.etc.
in the field of education or medicine etc. Not many!
And yet we are expected to confide in men who have no
qualifications in any of the relevant fields of social science...
by that I mean Social work... Counselling etc.
This point of view is not meant as a negative thing,
but rather a positive suggestion that the elders
undergo specialized training in these areas
so that they are no longer seen as 'blundering' through
our personal lives like a herd of untrained amateurs who
leave trails of heartbreak and devastation in their wake!
It's like Judicial Committees...
How on earth can some of these men be expected
to deal with the complex problems that are
brought before them?
People have to train for YEARS to practice in what to all intents
and purposes is a minefield of human emotions and behaviours.
Why not have specially, professionally trained men in each circuit who
could specifically deal with these traumatic cases...
and who could be called on at any time, rather than expect
'ordinary' men to have to deal with these things....
To be honest I'm suprised they haven't got into
more trouble than they are sadly already in!
Edited by - Kagloo on 27 September 2002 9:47:57