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  Planning A Fade. Need Ideas

  by Doubtfully Yours in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  this double life is slowly eating away at me.

  i'm planning to fade away and need all the ideas i can get.. it needs to be a fade because my parents, who i care deeply about are heavily into it and my poor hubby is wanting to obtain more privileges in the cong.

  me, on the other hand, can't stand going to so many meetings and service and giving parts, etc.. very much appreciate your ideas and support.

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  kgfreeperson

  Paul, that makes so much sense. Thanks for the analysis!
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  CZAR's Top Ten Favorite Episodes From Last Night's Xmas Debacle

  by czarofmischief in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  as you may know, the czarina and i had our first party as a married couple last night.

  since the pictures may take a while to develop, i decided to give all of you the rundown on the amazing time i had at my first official xmas party.

  this ties in nicely with our xjw theme, because it was my christmas party!

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  kgfreeperson

  Congratulations, you incipient bon vivant, you!
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  You Reap what you SOW??!!

  by Netty in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am so bummed right now.

  my sister, who is df'd, has so many medical conditions, she suffers alot.

  she has recently been dignosed with fibromyalgia, and is in such extreme pain, she had to have cortisone injections into various trigger points into her neck and spine.

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  kgfreeperson

  So unfair. So cruel. And certainly baffling if he is referring to your df status. I'm thinking it may be best to put him out of your mind--and encourage your sister to do the same--and focus on helping her do what she can to feel better. But I know that's easy for me to say. Hugs.
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  So called "Theocratic Warfare"

  by Mysterious in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i've heard others talk about it but i've never been in the middle of it before until now.

  mom was peeved at me for not being very theocractic (not doing anything wrong, just not being dub enough) and she started talking about how it was with my dad.

  she totally spun a tale to me about how he slowly drifted away.

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  kgfreeperson

  Is there a new phrase to represent the concept?
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  My brother died last night

  by doodle-v in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my brother turned 21 on september 24th, a month later the doctor told him that his leukimia had returned and he had a 10% chance of surviving.

  ten days before he died he spent four days at my house.

  he had already made up his mind that he wasnt going to take blood.

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  kgfreeperson

  Aw, sweetheart, I'm so sorry.
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  Got outta hospital today

  by Brummie in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  just wanted to say thanks for the pms, i'll spend more time online in the near future.

  i went into hospital early tuesday morning, had surgery wednesday and had to have a flamin pipe stook up through my gum travelling into the back of my nose.

  not nice lol, they had sewn it into my gum but they took it and the stitches out this morning so it was only 2 days, the other stitches will disolve.

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  kgfreeperson

  (working hard not to visualize the procedure) Be pain free soon, brummie!
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  My wife stole my books!!!!

  by dmouse in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i had an interesting conversation with a jw last week, who insisted that she was not 'brainwashed' and would be prepared to look at any evidence i had that the 'truth' was not the one true truth.. so i went to my book cupboard to get my copies of 'crisis of conscience' and 'signs of the last days - when?

  ' in order to lend them to her.. and they are gone!!!!

  i am absolutely certain they were there only a few weeks ago.. i can only assume that my jw wife (whom i'm not on the best of terms with) has taken them.

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  kgfreeperson

  No advice, dmouse, just lots and lots of good wishes. I hope you won't have to continue to deal with this much longer.
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  What Do You Try To Do To Get JWs OUT??

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  do you try to get any friends, relatives or witnesses in general, "out"?

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  kgfreeperson

  So, detective, you're still friends after a hiatus of 9 months, or he left the cult?
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  FAT PEOPLE = BAD ASSOCIATION

  by Funchback in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  i carry a few extra pounds but i generally don't overeat.

  however, i enjoy a good meal.

  but, the organization that says, "let us not judge others" is giving it's members free reign to judge those who are overweight (in the judger's eyes).

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  kgfreeperson

  Wow. Do you think this will be like smoking? A deadline will be set for "christians" to achieve their ideal weight and if they fail they will be disfellowshipped? Wow.
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  So the elders want to meet with me....

  by Tina_Belina in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so here's the deal.

  i have been df'ed for almost 2 years now.

  the elders have not tried to contact me once within this time.

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  kgfreeperson

  You might want to ask your dad if he thinks it will make it any easier/better for him and your mom if you talk to the elders? I wonder if they're pressuring him? If he thinks it will make it easier, you might ask him to talk it through with you since you have no intention of saying anything the elders want to hear. If he doesn't care, don't talk to them.