Hi oogie!! Welcome to the forum!
Take your time, and no matter what, DO NOT tell others the truth about the truth, not even your husband, without running your ideas through here. This is of course, a very strong recommendation. Mind control is extremely powerful, and if you do the exit process wrong, then you will lose the one shot you have to get your loved ones out. Once you are out, it becomes extremely difficult to get them to see TTATT. The best way to help them see it, is to help them to think!! Get them to think, and then you've made them do the first step to getting out...
I wish I had known about this website earlier. I went off and told a few people (perhaps around 5) about TTATT, and then I am now a ticking time bomb, waiting for one of them to hand me over to the elders.
It's been good so far... no problems. But I would recommend reading Steven Hassan's Cult Mind Control books... they not only help you get out, but provide tips on how to get your family out.
PM me if you have more questions!!
Welcome and enjoy this journey!!
ILTTATT