Since she is in fact coming over I suggest writing down all the things you didn't want to share with her and then hand her the note or relate them to her if you can. Honesty is the best policy.
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she left me today......
by theinfamousone ini went out to see my sister and my mom... when i got back she said she was leaving... when i asked why, she said she was weirded out by my lack of trust.... i couldnt trust her,, so i hid things... its not her fault, its not like i was lying or anything, but i mean some shit, i just didnt tell her... i am so used to being called names, lectured and torn apart for being 100% honest, that now, i still am scared to let anyone completely in... now the best thing that ever happened to me is gone... she left and im not sure shes ever coming back... and iom not sure who to blame.. i mean its obviously my fault, but did the borg put a fear of trusting into my heart and soul?
i guess i cant blame anyone but myself... but at this point, im so torn and hurt that im not sure what to do... all i know is that what was finally having the semblance of family to me is now gone... the first time i was able to live with someone and love someone, albeiut with an ingrained sense of distrust, has disappeared, probably never to return..... .
this has broken me, i don't know what i will be doing with myself for the next couple of days... i feel almost dead inside... the infamous one.
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Just saying Hi..
by Jen77 in..yup, just want to say hi to you all.. i m a new "face" in your territory..so far!
all the way from scandinavia..seems like there are most north americans here, but hopefully i am welcome anyways ;).
soon to be 30 year old (!
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Glad to have you here and your english seems good to me.
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1 Year Ago Today
by ColdRedRain ina year ago today, i posted this thread.
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/114275/1.ashx
i'm glad you guys at jwd helped me last year.
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Glad you are still around. Have a great weekend!!
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Newbie needs a favour
by boystartsover inbeen a fade away for quite a few years now.
wrote my letter and had my name removed from the list late last year.
i hate to just jump in and ask for help right away but i was hoping someone on here might be able to help me.
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WELCOME TO THE BOARD!!! That is going to be a super long tat. Good Luck with that.
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more from my story
by fiveangels ini am in desperate need of help bad.i just found out my snake of a jw fiance already has been dating a jw,the bugger lied to me when i asked.
if there was anybody else.now i just want to make him pay for all the hurt he has caused-i know this isn't the right way to think but why should he get away twice with hurting me.i called him to ask about it and he called me a stalker.i am not just wanted the truth,is that too much to ask?.
i am dead inside.
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If I were you I would take the ring back to where he got it and trade it in for something nice for myself. Then I would call him and tell him I never want to see him again. Write the elders and tell them anomously that he has pornea under his bed, in his closet and in his chest of drawers. Then I would move on with my life and find a man that appreciated me for me.
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Im Pregnant!
by katiekitten inhey gang, ive been away for a while so i thought i would come back with a bang, and share my good news - im 4 months pregnant.. but heres the really weird thing.
littletoe knew before i had told anyone.
he texted me and said "hows the pregnancy going?
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Congratulations!
If it makes you feel anybetter I knew my friend was pregnant right after she found out. I felt a need to call her and I did. She answered and I said, Pregnant huh? She freaked out and said I just found out 20 minutes ago how did you know? I just did. Something in her voice and the fact that I felt drawn to call her gave it away. I think if you are close to someone they can just give off the vibes.
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UNbaptised, DISfellowshipped & Free
by Miss 8572 inso hello everyone... i'm a brand new member and happy to be here... to know i am not alone.
i have been a jw since birth however i was never "encouraged"/forced to get baptised by my parents (lucky me!
) i always considered myself a member on the fringes of my congeregation and almost everybody treated me as a member even though i never commented or went in service.
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Good for you and welcome to the board!! I hope you make many friends outside the "truth" so that the old ones won't be missed as much. Time heals all wounds.
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How the Watchtower Society feels about examination of beliefs.
by Lady Liberty ini found these quotes from shauns research to be quite interesting since most if not all who do just as they suggest in their publications become labeled apostates lacking faith in god.. sincerely,.
lady liberty.
http://www.jwfiles.com/outline.htm.
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different churches have published books and brochures for the purpose of “exposing” Jehovah’s Witnesses as heretics....calling another a “heretic” or “false prophet”...
Oh you mean just like the JW's call every other religion false profits and heretics? Do unto others I guess, cause they ain't skert (that is southern for scared) acording to their words following.
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I am so angry right now, I could spit fire!!!
by unique1 inmy favorite grandma died of cancer shortly before i was engaged.
her sisters including the recently deceased, stepped up and bought me all my china for my wedding.
they attended my wedding, for her and all said they would be my substitute grandmas.
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"Oh, unique1? I guess she's not here because she doesn't care." "unique1 would have been here if she really loved her great aunt."
You think? Really? Wow, I really am new to this stuff I guess. I try not to be nieve about it, but the things they do are just so jacked up that I can't cover all my bases. I feel like I used to think like them but at the same time I constantly led a double life so I guess I never COMPLETELY thought like them. They can still blindside me.
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What do I do with the mouse now??
by Bumble Bee ini'm sitting here, typing with my left hand, because asleep in my right hand is a little mouse!
found the poor thing in the driveway, it almost looked like it had a stroke, it seemed to be dragging it's left side, flopping around trying to move towards the grass.
i didn't want the dogs to get it, so went and got my gloves, and scooped the poor thing up.
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aww, that is so very kind hearted of you. Good luck. He may have been attacked by a cat or dog already. They usually shake them in their mouth to break their neck so if that happened and he escaped, he may have spinal damage.