Race is like politics. Unending pandering.
America is not a melting pot. More like chunks of beef stew. Each chunk has a flavor: Irish, Mexican, Jewish, African, etc.
Stop deluding yourself that race does not mean anything. If you ever wind up in prison if you're black, I doubt that the Aryan brotherhood will take you in. Or if you're white, no matter how good a guy you are Nation of Islam would not be apt to take your confession.
There is only one color that means anything. That color is cold, hard, cash. The rest is just conversation.
Regarding Lincoln. Civil war had little to due with slavery. It had more to do with economics. The cash crops of cotton and tobacco was harvested in the agrarian South, but processed in the industrial North before England paid for it.
Lincoln used race as a front for Northern public support.
Two good books:
1)Abraham Lincoln: Speeches and Writings 1859-1865. Author. Don E. Fehrenbacher
2) Lincoln: His Words and His World. Author Robert L. Polley
Excerpt from book #1 pg 636
"... I am not nor ever have been in favor of bringing about in any way the social and political equality of the white and black races--- that I am not nor ever have been in favor of making voters or jurors of Negroes, nor of qualifying them to hold office, nor intermarry with white people; and I will say in addition to this that there is a physical difference between the white and black races which I believe will forever forbid the two races living together on terms of social and political equality. And inasmuch as they cannot so live, while they do remain together there must be the position of superior and inferior, and I as much as any other man am in favor of having the superior position assigned to the white race."
This statement came in the 4th debate with Senator Stephen Douglas in 1861. AFTER the civil war started.
Whoa!
Good thing for Abe there was no CNN.