First of all, I don't really have an opinion on euthanasia one way or the other. But since my mother has a terminal illness, I've been thinking more about it. Not for her, but for myself when the time comes. Which will probably be in the very distant future.
Last night in the hospital, she tearfully asked the doctor, "Can't someone just please kill me now?" I'm sure it was just the frustration of not being able to be as independant as she used to be. But she is now in a retirement facility, and requires assistance for just about everything. Her mind is still as sharp as ever, which probably makes it even more difficult for her. When I looked around at the other residents of the home, I noticed that they just sat there, motionless, staring into space all day long. They looked like they were already dead, but just forgot to stop breathing.
I find it hard to think of myself in such a state. I'm very independant too, and the thought of having to rely on others to change my diapers appalls me. At this moment, I think I'd rather take myself out when I can see that enjoying any quality of life is impossible. I think I'd rather make my exit on my terms. I don't have any children, or other close family members, so it wouldn't really make a difference to anyone.
Any thoughts?
Walter
iiz2cool
JoinedPosts by iiz2cool
-
18
Euthanasia
by iiz2cool infirst of all, i don't really have an opinion on euthanasia one way or the other.
but since my mother has a terminal illness, i've been thinking more about it.
not for her, but for myself when the time comes.
-
-
iiz2cool
-
63
Do You Know Of Reasons Why Some Got Removed From Their Privileges?
by minimus inpioneer, ms, elder publisher???
?
-
-
iiz2cool
I was removed as Account Servant and from sound because I was taking computer courses on Saturdays. It was considered a bad example for the young ones, who were encouraged to pioneer rather than pursue worldly careers.
Walter
-
58
Just wanted to say goodbye
by Aztec ini'm going to be offline for quite a while.
i'm moving this weekend and the computer i use belongs to my sister.
since i will no longer be living with her i won't have daily access to a computer.
-
-
iiz2cool
Aztec!!! Don't be gone too long! We're getting withdrawl symptoms already!
Walter -
42
Finally! Some good news in my life!
by Aztec ini've been having a rough go financially lately and my job is less than rewarding.
my hours have slowly been cut back over the last few months to the point where i've had to decide between food and bills.
however, my sister's friend brought me a job ad.
-
-
iiz2cool
Hey Aztec, it sounds like you have a great opportunity here! I've been in situations where I've had to decide between food and bills too many times, so I know what you've been going through. I hope this job works out.
Walter -
13
DA Update
by iiz2cool inas some of you know, i sent a letter to the elders of my last congregation disassociating myself from jehovah's witnesses.
i was originally going to wait, as my mother, who's 81, is very ill with cancer.
she's not expected to live very long.
-
-
iiz2cool
As some of you know, I sent a letter to the elders of my last congregation disassociating myself from Jehovah's Witnesses. I was originally going to wait, as my mother, who's 81, is very ill with cancer. She's not expected to live very long. But because of circumstances, I decided to do it this past week. I spoke to her today, and I told her about my decision. I felt it was best to give her the news myself before she found out from others who would most certainly not give her the real reasons for my disassociation. I was very surprised to find that it didn't stress her as much as I thought it would. In fact, she's quite pissed at her own congregation right now. She's been to hospital six times in the last few weeks, and I've now placed her in a nursing home for the time being, as she requires much assistance. But during this time, very few have bothered dropping by to see her or even giving a phone call. This is in spite of the fact that she was good enough to open her home as a book study center for the last 16 years. She's finally finding out just how much they really appreciated her generosity.
All things considered, I'm happy I sent the letter this week, and I'm glad I told her before she heard it from others.
Walter -
31
Jesika/Aztec and everyone!
by Ron1968 inhi jesika and aztec,.
i hope you can help me to get to know everyone better here.
this is a really huge forum from what i am used to.
-
-
iiz2cool
Hey Ron! Good to see you here!
Walter -
46
Are you a good kisser?
by Maverick ina regular at the local diner was sitting in his usual spot, all long in the face and sad, when his friend the waitress came over to take his order.
"why so mopey?
", she inquired.
-
-
iiz2cool
Never had any complaints, but plenty of compliments. Naturally, everyone likes something just a little different, so the quality of kisses would have to be subject to independant verification.
Walter -
-
-
iiz2cool
I was the account servant, though I was never an elder or ministerial servant. I was asked because the congregation's books were in such bad shape, and no one else seemed to know how to do it. I also did all the other things such as handle mic, sound, stage, subscriptions, magazines, and I pioneered for just over 2 years.
Walter -
27
Why are JW REQUIRED to report Field Service Time???
by JT inif you ever wanted to know why this poster put it best
repost-------------------------------------.
in reply to: why do jw keep track of hrs?
-
-
iiz2cool
It kind of reminds me of a pyramid type company, only more sinister.
Walter
-
35
what your music taste means about you
by MrMoe inwhat your music taste means about you: .
http://www.outofservice.com/music-personality-test/.
people high on this dimension tend to enjoy alternative, rock, and heavy metal music.
-
-
iiz2cool
33 % enjoys reflective and complex music 81 % enjoys edgy and aggressive music 19 % enjoys fun and simple music 4 % enjoys energetic and upbeat music Yep, that's me.
Walter
