Thanks Happy,
I am escalating it through the proper channels, it was the public shunning and rudness that had the adverse reaction to my ASD. Confidentiality breaches are more complex to prove. Kate xx
i have been back to meetings for a month now.
prepared for them all except for when i went on holiday.. todays wt is about jehovah's organisation, it's clear loaded language and manipulation through fear.
i am not perturbed by it in the least.
Thanks Happy,
I am escalating it through the proper channels, it was the public shunning and rudness that had the adverse reaction to my ASD. Confidentiality breaches are more complex to prove. Kate xx
the influx of new posters made me wonder if the push to view jw.org is helping curious ones find this support site?.
please post whether you found jwn during an internet search or if someone told you about it.. i myself was directed here by a df'd family member once i shared my doubts with that person..
Cedars from jwsurvey introduced me. Kate xx
i have been back to meetings for a month now.
prepared for them all except for when i went on holiday.. todays wt is about jehovah's organisation, it's clear loaded language and manipulation through fear.
i am not perturbed by it in the least.
You now sound very happy Kate, that's the most important thing.-TF1
Thanks happy happy joy joy Kate xx
i've been browsing the site for some time as things that the society teach just are not adding up much these days.
by exploring some of the threads on here i'm starting to see why.
a brief bio.
Out of the group of peers I grew up with I'm the only one who hasn't left, been df'd or reproved.-purrpurr
Welcome purrpurr, get in touch with all your peers that have left. Track them down they can really support you. Next, read as much as you can from former members, I recomend jwsurvey, jwfacts and CoC. They were my main three resources to help me learn the truth about "the truth" (TTATT)
Keep posting lets us know your progress
Kate xx
i have been back to meetings for a month now.
prepared for them all except for when i went on holiday.. todays wt is about jehovah's organisation, it's clear loaded language and manipulation through fear.
i am not perturbed by it in the least.
It was EU's insistence that led Canada then the US to legislate privacy.-jgnat
It's appaulling if confidentiality is broken, but how can I prove it, plus there is spousal privilege. I know Sis IamSoFullOfMyself has told her hubby COBE, that I was there. There is no way she would pass it up, but how can I prove it.
jgnat, it's sweet that your glad I am not going to meetings, just a silly phase to win my loved ones over. I can do more good now that I am away from the KH.
Kate xx
everyone knows i have been playing this dating game, and what a fun game it has been.
i have met a few nice guys but remained strictly platonic, and also met some really pushy guys too that just wanted sex.. i have not met mr right yet, but who knows what the platonic guys could evolve into.. it's all a game and anyone who says they don't play games when dating is lying.
does a man always have to make the first move?.
Everyone knows I have been playing this dating game, and what a fun game it has been. I have met a few nice guys but remained strictly platonic, and also met some really pushy guys too that just wanted sex.
I have not met Mr Right yet, but who knows what the platonic guys could evolve into.
It's all a game and anyone who says they don't play games when dating is lying. Does a man always have to make the first move?
Well I like this part of the game, if he want's to meet me he needs to ask first, but then I sometimes make the first move taking it to a proper phone conversation before we meet. I will give him time and see if he suggests it. I like a confident methodical man.
I have had a few coffee dates, plenty of messages, and phone conversations. It's fun, I have even met up with a couple of guys more than once but things didn't work out. No one has got as far as taking me out for a meal yet, do guys even do that anymore?
If you're a guy or a girl, what do you think?????????
Does a man always have to make the first move?
Kate xx
i have been back to meetings for a month now.
prepared for them all except for when i went on holiday.. todays wt is about jehovah's organisation, it's clear loaded language and manipulation through fear.
i am not perturbed by it in the least.
perhaps it's good that you were reminded - cBg
Let's face it, it wasn't going to be long before I was going to get shunned in manner that was unacceptable to me. Of course I have to be vocal about it. Well there you have it, I am back in the land of the living, although I never really left did I?
Kate xx
i have been back to meetings for a month now.
prepared for them all except for when i went on holiday.. todays wt is about jehovah's organisation, it's clear loaded language and manipulation through fear.
i am not perturbed by it in the least.
last month, my best friend of four years and boyfriend of six months came home from a jehovah's witness convention.
he'd been acting strangely the entire weekend and i knew something was wrong.
i initiated a discussion and he said, "essentially our relationship is wrong and i'm not supposed to be with you.
I am sorry to hear what this JW did to you over years and years. He lied to you and gained your trust, but he was never going to commit to you. I am so sorry you have been hurt and used by this monster who lied to you about who he was. He will be isolated and lonely as he is a hypocrite. But you have us.
Take care and keep posting
Kate xx
I am from Liverpool...we need a North West meet up............WMF where in Wales?
Kate xx