Posts by primitivegenius

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Sexless Marriages Could Threre Be a Direct Link by Being Raised JW?

by okiesooner1966 in

i would like start by saying i having been married twice.

the first time i married a girl who was also raised a jw, sex was great when we first got married but after a couple of years it almost completely stopped.

the marriage did not last much longer i thought it was because we just grew apart and i became uninterested.

primitivegenius

nah its just a damn lot of work. FACT

my wife and i have different timetables when it comes to it.......

she would instigate it to late at night for me.... ( i was working from 4am to 12 noon) she would try to start things around 11 -12 pm....... yeah right........... if i say yeah......... then the next day im DEAD

i try to start things earlier...... like 8-9pm..... forget about it she has tv programs to watch....... WTF

ok compromise............. saturday morning....... yeah RIGHT neither of us are morning people

shes under 4 blankets wearing six pairs of pajamas (mind you this is in MIAMI) im in my underware with nothing but a thin sheet over me........... lol the airconditioning is off cause its to COLD for her........ and im sweating elephants and rhinos

so whadaya do? well now things are different......... we have a child............ so when hes asleep..... game ON lol at least that solves our time issues lol.

it takes so damn much work to make a sex life happen ......... but its worth it because i wouldnt take for her.

the wbts does screw up people in every aspect but it doesent mean you cant work through it. my wife has more issues with them over sex than i do but we manage to make it work......... not as often as id like mind you but hey im a guy.

i never thought that i would be out of energy at the end of a long ass day before but if you leave sex out of your plan it WONT happen.

and DAMN WOMEN it aint all about men starting everything.

so you expect me to clean up the bedroom and put candels everywhere and cover the floor with rosepetals..................... fill the jacuzzi up with scented oils................ ok FINE that will happen once or TWICE a year the rest of the time its not gonna be like that and if you expect it to then theres gonna be a couple of unhappy nonsexual people. lol

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Secret Santa 2007 (forum gift exchange !!)

by Angharad in

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friends

well christimas will soon be here !!.

for those that are new we have done this for the last few years, what it involves is that those who want to join in will post to this thread and then pm me their name and address.

i will then collate the names and addresses and assign everyone a person to buy a gift for.

primitivegenius

ohhhhhhh presents........... all i want are old back issues of magazines i never took the time to read............ no wait......... i have gas heat... never mind

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MY EX WAS AT MY HOME......

by REBORNAGAIN in

he was here when i got home from work.

he was helping my son put a new desk together.

i questioned him about his standing, i.e.

primitivegenius

(hugs)

its funny aint it how dubs always wanna think they are more approved of by god than you or anyone else. screw him..(or not as the case may be ) your much better off freeing yourself from that stupid garbage, you know where you stand with god.

PG of the pot calling the kettle black class

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My Cong- "Large Witness Gatherings are Banned!! And fancy dress? Why?

by Witness 007 in

a year ago in my cong, an elder who must be hitler's love child, gets up and tells us how some brothers are planning a fancy dress party, a large social gathering.

sounds fun i though!

"brothers a sincere christian would not attend such a gathering, we are warning you not to go near it.

primitivegenius

typical elder horse s*** .... anytime anyone does anything FUN they gotta F*** it up.

people in my old circuit started haveing more parties without elder control................................

sister started arraingeing formal dances.... wear a tux or a nice dress........ or normal kingdum hall clothes.......... she had to rent the building so she had it catered and you had to pay like 5 bucks to get in. no big deal........... cheap price for the food alone cause that place was tight. she of course only had 2 or 3 before the elders shut her down for chargeing admission. i think she did like one or two after that where she paid for it by herself or a couple families who didnt give a s*** went in together....... so the elders trumped up some other horse s*** to make her stop.

then OMG someone decided to start haveing costume parties.......... didnt even get the first one off the ground...... elders put their foot down....... be like dressing up as pagans........... and who cares about that lol. so it got turned into a dance and no one really came....... nice one elders..... suck the life and joy out of everything.

they start in how you cant have large gathering......... then they say you cant invite the same people over all the time............... so i have friends and you think you got the right to tell me who i can invite to private SMALL parties. WTH ........... their excuse........... can form clicks.

my reply YOUR NOT INVITED

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Computer Security Advice

by ColdRedRain in

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friends

i was on this website that loaded this crap trojan horse called winantispyware on my computer and it ended up making my computer unbootable.

would i be able to do a repair install on my computer and then install antivirus software on the repaired computer?

primitivegenius

i belive that virus can be killed by downloading (when you can) smitfraudfix and then bringing up your comp in safe mode......... running the program...... and then restarting once you have deleted those files.

i personally use uniblue for virus protection....... i have their registry booster to clean up that their virus scan and their spyware scan....... also speed up my pc which absolutely ROCKS

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Shunned by my SIL the B........

by AK - Jeff in

shunning still hurts for me, i admit it.

though i have no common ground with these people any longer, it is just the idea that i am treated as evil for nothing more than exiting the religion.

i was in a chinese rest on wednesday.

primitivegenius

one of the things that pisses me off the most........ is how anything....... even the slightest negative thing will be pounced on by those basturds and will be so called PROOF that they are better than you and that theres nothing but vomit outside the borg. \

i refuse to do things according to THEIR rules..... and i pity them...........both things they cant comprehend or understand.

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Im on pins and needles.

by purplesofa in

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friends

i kinda did a terry yesterday, i just quit my job, with two weeks notice, but without having another job lined up.. i did go on an interview yesterday at a furniture design store in little rock.. i posted this april 7th of 05 at this board.....topic wt and awakes.

http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/9/88477/1.ashx.

i have thousands of them........dating back to 1985 .

primitivegenius

good luck leslie hope it works out wonderfully for you (nice drawing btw)

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MY EX WAS AT MY HOME......

by REBORNAGAIN in

he was here when i got home from work.

he was helping my son put a new desk together.

i questioned him about his standing, i.e.

primitivegenius

theres always hope.............

its funny how we want everyone to see that cult for what it is..... even someone we dont like or care to be around.

my wife has a crazy aunt.............. but honestly......... who wouldnt be ........... if they were a 50 yr old virgin cult member....... right. this aunt has recently been introduced to someone who could possibly pull her back from the fringes. this someone is a person who my wife could never stand............ he was a controlling person who thinks women are second class citizens............. wait thats standard operateing procedures right.

my wife said she dosent want to be related to this guy for even a second so i told her that some good could come of it................. she was not buying it.

i said that first off her aunt would get laid and that is something she VERY much needs and second maybe he would drive her from the cult for good.

its funny i pray for all dubs to get freedom from that cult......... even those i never liked whilst in. some things you wouldnt wish on your worst enemy and that cult is one of them.

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