What are they afraid of, other than the big "A
I think so, what else could keep them going? Good post Get busy!
lately i've just been getting contacted quite a bit by depressed zombie like cultist's.
i thought i would welcome being contacted by dubs after i da'ed but i actually really find it annoying!
they all drop comments like "nothing ever changes.." "i don't really go to the meeting's that much.." "i'm just so bored.." "if i didn't have meetings i could go back to school" "brother shitbag is a jerk.. i'm so sick of him.." "the elders treat me like a child" blah blah blah.
What are they afraid of, other than the big "A
I think so, what else could keep them going? Good post Get busy!
many know my story; im in a fade, still attending meetings every now and then.
recently i had to endure a co visit.
during one of his talks i didnt know what to do, laugh or start yelling.
Julia, this is just gross. How are you able to sit through it? I remember the times I'd be at the Kh, listening to this kind of stuff, I wanted to crawl out of my skin. It doesnt change, same stuff as 20 years ago.
i'm not trolling here or trying to upset, i'm not attacking anyone personally or trying to force my opinion on others but having read a lot of people experiences on leaving the org i really can not understand the point of fading.
i understand that people risk losing contact with family members and friends but really what type of friend and how good a family member are they if they are willing to shun you for not holding the same beliefs?.
a bit of background might be in order here.
I faded, and am glad I did it this way. Although yes, it brings with it, it's own set of problems, for me personally, it still beats the alternative. Simply put, I wanted my parents in my life.
Mtbatoon, are you df'd or da'd? Cuz if you're not, then you are also fading... Whether it's a quick break or a slow process, its still a fade.
what a thoughtful first comment made on the other thread.
i think you'll make a fine contributor to this board.. welcome daystar - look forward to hearing your story!.
crumpet
Daystar, I just read your first post and your bio, and would like to welcome you here.
how many of you ex witnesses out there became irritating bastards to family and friends when you left the organisation?
did you push your believing mate right out the door with your verbal assaults?
did you send out a long letter to all of your witness family and friends telling them what a lying cult the watchtower organisation is?
Panda and Netty.....what the heck you two still doin up at this hour? You guys are drinkin again.....aren't ya?
Panda, wer'e busted, again.
Yea, Gumby, I wonder what his side of the story is. You know how the witnesses have to paint such a terrible pictue of those who leave. Good luck with your friend.
allright all you closet soap opera fans, now is the time to come clean!
what is your favorite soap opera and why?
dont lie, ya know you watch 'em.
Hey, we're the same person!
Hey, it's him hes HERE!! And might I add, you're looking good for a man of 105 years of age. you been working out?
Thank you for posting this for us to read IP-SEC. Sorry about all this Tij, sounds just awful. Makes me so mad, the emotional turmoil that these ridiculous rules and regulations put on innocent people. I am so glad for you that you have found the support you need here. And great that your sister continued to support you and make a difference for you. Sometimes all it takes is the compassion of one person to help you through a crisis. (((Tij)))
http://www.accessnorthga.com/news/hall/newfullstory.asp?id=93613 .
http://www.accessnorthga.com/news/hall/newfullstory.asp?id=93613 .
posted thursday, june 23 at 6:41 am.
How wonderful for this poor little helpless baby! Great news.
Jourles, I agree with you. I think many parents feel pressured by the elders, and would likely make the right decision, if the brothers weren't at the hospital to "encourage" them.
Crazyblondeb, awesome of you! Fantastic! If you saved only one life, that's what matters. And the nurses, good that they put the signs up, and that they know better.
one thing you can say about the leaders of the watchtower----they simply do as they please.
whenever they want to make up a new rule to impose upon the helpless "sheep", they simply tell you this is how it is from now on.
for example you could've been a witness and at the same time been a smoker, but in the early 70's, "new light" said that those who smoked actually were involved with the demons!
It all gets confusing doesn't it? I used to work somewhere where we had a dragon lady for a supervisor. She was constantly changing rules and procedures, peoples work stations, work responsibilities. We never knew whether we were coming or going.
Everyone said she kept us confused, as a way to keep her power/control. Same with the WTS, they try to keep everyone lost and confused with all these changes, that are either published or not, so that they keep their power.
just a wee update on my current tentative drawing out of my family.
i sent a letter, which not coincidentally was timed to arrive on fathers day weekend just gone.
its the first letter i've sent in 8 years to my family and whilst i was careful to avoid any mention of religion i did talk about how happy i was generally and mentioned how nice it is that i see so much of my inlaws who despite living 800 miles away make regular visit to us at least 3 or 4 times a year.
Wow, how wonderful for you! Your patience is paying off.