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  For those who feel that their life has been stolen

  by stillin in

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  you maintained a level of personal decency and integrity that you almost certainly would not have had if you had chosen another direction.. sure, you would have had some very "colorful" friends and experiences if you had gone another way, but you still chose the more "edgy" people in the congregation as your friends and you still enjoyed yourself, even if there were a lot of phony constraints.. you looked for ways to be of value to others.

  don't stop doing that!.

  you kept the darker side of your personality in check.

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  I remember having some lovely times when I was young. Outings to the zoo, assembly stay overs, ice skating etc.... I was also allowed worldly friends as my Dad was a non-jw. It got complicated when I was an adult!!
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  After a Jehovah's Witness secretly confronted a foster child, Eunice Spry was jailed for torturing three children; she is now set to be released from prison and re-homed near her victims. UK

  by Sol Reform in

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  after a jehovah's witness secretly confronted a foster child, eunice spry was jailed for torturing three children; she is now set to be released from prison and re-homed near her victims.

  uk.

  (warning - graphic pictures and story).

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  A rope would have been a better verdict. I'm feeling very angry with these people today.
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  Oops! I think my numbers up!

  by Oneoutallout in

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  had a call from an elder a few weeks ago, asking if he could visit.

  managed to get away with saying thanks but no thanks.

  had another one tonight.

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  quellycatface

  Don't let them manipulate you. Jump before you are pushed. No shame in walking away. It's up to you now.

  All the best mate.
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  Wine Appreciation

  by FL_Panthers in

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  for the love wine.. .

  what are you drinking at the moment?.

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  quellycatface

  Australian Chardonnay. ROOP ROOP!!!
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  Survey---who is inactive, disfellowshipped/disassociated or active?

  by minimus in

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  i am inactive for about 10 years now..

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  quellycatface

  Bap'd 2000, inactive from 2006, happily da'd in December 2013.
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  Pensioner jailed for sex assault on 12-year-old Crawley girl he met through Jehovah's Witness church - UK

  by Sol Reform in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  http://www.crawleynews.co.uk/pensioner-jailed-sex-assault-12-year-old-girl-met/story-21159650-detail/story.html.

  pensioner jailed for sex assault on 12-year-old crawley girl he met through jehovah's witness church.

  by cballinger | posted: may 29, 2014. jailed: oliver connor has been sentenced for a historic sex assault on a crawley girl.

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  quellycatface

  My thoughts are with that poor young girl and her family. I pray she gets all the support she needs to get over her ordeal and go on to live a normal life.

  I wouldn't bother giving this Connor individual a prison sentence, a rope or a bullet, maybe?

  It's time to blow the lid off this kind of behaviour, in any churches. Zero tolerance.
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  My sister is getting df'd.....

  by Blttex in

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  just found out that my little sister is getting df'd next week.

  her husband left her about a year ago got df'd and recently got a girl pregnant.

  my sister has had a hard time with the whole situation as you can imagine.

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  Isn't the Watchtower a lovely, charitable organisation?? Bunch of hypocrites. They don't disfellowshipped paedophiles though??

  I hope your sister is okay. She is hurting right now but this is the best thing to have happened. Tell her to go enjoy her freedom, she deserves it.
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  Am I a judgmental bastard or just one of the last sane persons on this planet?

  by skeeter1 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  so, i happened to see a young lady.

  she's about 13 or 14, can't be more than 16 years old.

  fresh faced, rosy cheeks, and a little pudgy.

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  quellycatface

  It's insecurity, basically. Look at David Beckham for instance.

  Just a way to express themselves.

  I'm a rebel too but in a much more subtle guise.
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  Happy 21st!!!!

  by KateWild in

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  21 years ago today, was the one of the most special days of my life.

  i gave birth to my precious daughter.

  who knew it would pass so quickly!

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  quellycatface

  Many Happy Returns to your lovely daughter. XX

  Have a fabulous evening. Will be thinking of you sipping that champagne!!
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  Why is my JW mother so mean to me and her grandson??

  by quellycatface in

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  i've been wanting to ask your advice for ages on this subject and here goes.. my mum is a jw fanatic, she just reads the bible and the publications, no other books at all.

  she is a functioning alcoholic.. she is so disappointed in me.

  i married out of the truth, you see!!!.

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  Hi Splash! I kind of got my head around that scenario when I decided to DA. It would be no great loss, which sounds pretty hard but I've never had much love for my mother.

  Something happened in our family when I was 10 yrs old (not abuse or anything like that), that showed my parents in their true colours. I can never forget that.

  I've never been good enough for my mother. Fact.

  I just want to vent. I can't see her anymore. She destroys my spirit.